Basic Penis Education
LOOK at your partners penis, examine it and see how wonderfully created it is for your sexual pleasure.

The shaft, the head (technically the glans penis, with glans coming from the Latin which means "acorn"). Look at it closely. The outside of the glans penis is the corona. This joins the head to the shaft. This is the most sensitive part on the penis and where most of your attention should be in giving oral sex.

On the underside of the glans there is a point of juncture where the two ends of this irregular circle come together. If the male is not circumcised, this will be where the foreskin is attached. This tiny area is the most sexually sensitive spot on his entire body, and is similar to the woman's clitoris. It may be possible to bring your partner to a climax simply by gently tapping the tip of your tongue directly on it.

Beneath the glans is the shaft of the penis. The shaft does not have many nerve endings and does not, therefore, provide a man with any high degree of stimulation when caressed either manually or with your tongue to the exclusion of the glans penis itself. It always amazes me to note the number of women who believe that sucking up and down on the shaft will get the guy off. That's not it, folks! If it works it is because the back of your throat is playing tricks on his glans penis. Your throat is giving head to his head!

Beneath the shaft are the testicles. The testicles ("balls" in slang) are extremely sensitive to pain and are not usually considered subject to erotic stimulation to any particular degree. Not true! You can add a high degree of pleasure for him by paying the right kind of attention to the testicles. The opening in the tip of the glans penis is the meatus. Here is where the cum spurts.

The sad fact is that most people, men and women, do not have the slightest idea of how to suck a penis. Most seem to think that simply by making a cunt of their mouth, closing it around a man's penis, and bobbing their heads lustily up and down until he climaxes automatically makes them an expert. Au contraire!

Consummate skill is required to suck a man and provide him with the highest degree of pleasure possible. When a woman first starts her quest she usually has no one to turn to for advise and counsel. It was all hunt and suck. Hunt and suck. Find that one technique that could and would set him on fire! Also some men are more stimulated by oral sex than others. For most men it is very stimulating but for others its not.

In order for you to observe your man's reactions and get the most information possible about his responses, try the following:

While his erect penis points toward the ceiling, cup his balls in one hand and gently, using only your tongue, lick softly, but carefully along the entire underside of his erect organ. As you suck along the underbelly you will learn those areas that give him the greatest pleasure when your tongue is touching them. Unless he is made of stone, your partner will provide you with vivid clues as to which areas are most pleasurable.

As you discover these areas of enhanced pleasure, concentrate on them. For most men the most sensitive area will be the point where the ring (or corona) of the head and the foreskin are attached. Or were attached prior to his circumcision. By continued licking and tapping along this area with your tongue you may bring forth a geyser. If you are not skilled and you want to please him in a hurry I suggest that you get him off in this manner in order to become familiar at first hand with the nature and delight of his climax.

As he is getting ready for climax you will note changes in his penis. These signs will be the same every time he climaxes so that you can prepare for his cum properly. The head of the penis may swell somewhat larger then it is during the normal course of his erection. He may thrust his hips forward as he wants to send his body hurtling out his penis with his cum. And for most men, immediately prior to the cum, there will appear at the tiny, lovely lips at the tip of the penis a clear drop or two of fluid. When you see this or feel the opening at the meateus through his condom you know that the moment of truth is at hand. Launch the torpedoes, full cum ahead!

Where should you be when you are sucking his penis? Between his legs, on top of him, in a sixty nine position? Where? Because of the structure of his penis, as well as the structure of your mouth, lips, tongue, and teeth, you can provide the highest degree of sensation to yourself and your partner by kneeling between his legs and approaching his penis from the bottom rather than from the side or the top.

Place his stiff penis inside your mouth but do not tighten your lips around the shaft. With your head begin a circle motion. The penis will slide to different places in your mouth as you continue the circle motion. Watch your teeth on this one. A kneeling position will suffice but it is also effective when your partner is on his back and your head is directly over his penis. The circle should be executed in both clockwise and counterclockwise motions in a slow, purposeful manner.

With your man sitting in an elevated position and you on your knees in front of him lift his hard penis to reveal his balls. With your tongue find the underside of his balls. Now, while resting his balls on your wet tongue, lick in an upward motion to the very tip of his penis. It is permissible to use your hands in this technique. It is better to do this technique several times in succession-like licking a lollipop or ice cream cone.

Right now lets discuss a technique that is probably the most common penissucking technique in the world. Take his penis in your mouth but not deeply. We will get to deep throating later on. It's great, not over-rated, but if you want to be an expert at deep throat, start with the right techniques and work your way down, so to speak.

Take his penis in your mouth by sliding your moistened tongue lovingly over the head until your lips close around the shaft at the point just behind the corona. Don't just open your mouth and close it around his penis. Slide it in. He will enjoy it much more. Encase the shaft of his penis with your hand. Remember the shaft is relatively insensitive to any kind of stimulation. By enclosing his penis with your hand you give him the sensation of having his penis encased.

Now you have several options. Try twisting your head from side to side making sure your moist lips stay in contact with the coronal ridge. While doing this gently move your hand up and down the shaft. When he climaxes he may want to push your head further down the shaft of his penis. He wants to envelop you with his penis. As you are learning his climax, you will miss the fine points if you deep throat at this time. Instead gently suck around the corona as he climaxes so that you can intensify his pleasure and increase the force of his orgasm. As you gain more experience you will be able to tell exactly when his climax is approaching.

There is one further refinement to this basic technique, which will heighten his orgasm. If you place your thumb at the very base of the penis in such a way as to block the tube through which the cum spurts, the semen cannot escape even though he is spasming and going through the reflex action of ejaculating semen.

If at the same time you suck vigorously on the head of his penis you can delay his cum for several long moments. When you finally allow the cum to spurt it will last much longer and be just as intense as a result. Even though you delay the cum for only a few short moments, you will be surprised by the intensity of his cum.

These techniques are the basis of penissucking. Do not go beyond them until you have become an expert, not only in the techniques themselves, but also in the reading and interpreting of your partner's responses to such a point that you know exactly how he is getting off on what you are doing. When you have reached this point, you are ready for the more subtle, more advanced techniques.

Don't be so slavish that you miss out on the fun of self discovery. Find out what works for you and for your partner and make your penissucking as individual as your signature. After all, you want your man to pick you out in the dark among a hundred slobbering penissuckers.

One of the first things you encountered when you first started to suck penis was a gag reflex. Most men seem to want to force their penis down your throat as far as they can get it. Particularly at the moment when they cum!

Consider for a moment that the average length of your oral cavity is three to three and a half inches while the average Caucasian penis length is five to five and a half inches. The laws of nature would seem to dictate that getting all that penis into your mouth is an impossibility.

It can be done. If you understand your anatomy you will begin to understand the requirements that allow you to take his hard penis into your mouth and down your throat. The biggest obstacle to taking all of his penis down your throat is the fact that there is a bend of almost ninety degrees behind your tongue leading down into your throat. So the first thing to do is get the penis past that angle.

Oh my!!!
I LOVE to give head... and I believe I am very talented at it.
The only thing I can add to the above is...
DO IT WITH ENTHUSIASM!!!!!
I can not count the number of times men have said to me afterwards "You are the first woman who acted like she was enjoying herself" or "You really liked doing that?" with a note of surprise in his voice.

Eye contact , as was already mentioned... helps too.

orally,

WW

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i dont really care much about the technique...i just love the feeling of having my dick played with by a nice moist tongue....ohhhh what a feeling

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How To Give a Great BlowJob
The Blowjob is best when implemented in three stages, the arousal, the teasing, and the “outcome”. I will describe each of these stages in detail. Many people think that a long blowjob is the best kind, and when you have the time, it certainly can be, but when you don’t have time for a hour long BJ, a 10 minute one can be just as satisfying. As with anything, it takes practice, a little talent, and a LOT of true enthusiasm, to truly pull off a perfect BJ, but these are the steps which can make it possible.
The arousal
Men are all different. This is the first rule of all sex. There is NO one thing that ALL men get off on. Many men however are a little put off when you just grab a cock and start sucking. It is disconcerting for them, after all this is their private region. Beginning the arousal stage should take some time, working your way to his cock. Depending on how much time you have to work with, you could start all the way at his ears, or just around his thighs. Teasing, making him want to feel your lips on his growing root. Breath hot breath on him, and lightly touch his skin with your tongue. Let him know how lucky you are to be enjoying his body by groaning aloud. Slowly work your way to his cock. Continue to blow hot breath onto him. Lick his cock lightly with the tip of your tongue. And then breath in close to where you wet it. This will create a cold sensation, and after your hot breath, it will be a suprising yet erotic change. Breath more hot breath again and focus on his balls a little more, just touching them with the tip of your tongue. By now, your man should be hard. He should be standing at attention and where ever your mouth is, that’s where the cock should be leaning. You have finished stage one and are ready to move to stage 2.

The Teasing
Yes, you have actually been teasing him already, but you will be doing it in a different way this time. The object of this stage is to PREVENT YOUR MAN FROM COMING. Tickle or tug his balls (you have to know what he likes cause some like it rough and some DO NOT) with one hand (usually the left if you are right handed). Take the other hand and squeeze the root of his cock. Now proceed with your tongue. His cock should be SO ready to have your mouth on it that he will let out a sigh. You should also let out a long sigh-groan showing how happy you are to be sucking this perfect cock. During this stage it is important to change your style often, so here are some different styles to choose from.
1. Deep throat. This needs no explaniation, but be sure not to do this long or he WILL come.
2. Lick the underside of his dick spreading your tongue as wide as possible. At the root suck the spot right between his balls and his cock.
3. Lick and suck and kiss his balls. Be careful tho!
4. When sucking his cock gently drag your teeth over his shaft.
5. Twirl your tongue around the tip of his cock.
6. Apply sucking to the tip of his cock and then the rest of it.
7. Moan while doing all of these things.
8. Anal play is always fun!
9. Try other things and ask him if he likes it. If so, remember it and add it to the list.

Those are just a few of my tricks, but there are tons of them, so be creative and be communicative.

The Outcome
By now your man should be begging for release, if not, thats ok too. If you have found your neck getting sore or your lips are hurting, remember that it takes longer for a man to come if he is worried about your comfort or pleasure. So if you want to hurry the process, Forget your discomfort and do this...
If you can deep throat then go to it till he comes (really I don’t know much about this)
If you can’t then this will do the trick...
Get your mans cock wet with your saliva. Very wet and keep it wet until he comes.
Put your right hand around the base of his cock (when it is lubricated) and start to match your mouth strokes with your hand strokes. Your mouth should be working the top half or third while your hand is jacking off the bottom. Be sure to apply sucking to his cock, letting him know that you can’t wait to taste the delicious treat he has in store for you. Continue the mouth and hand strokes up and down. NOW for an important tip. Keep a rhythm and don’t stop. If you have to stop sucking to get your breath, use your hand all the way up his cock in the same rhythm. This should give you a little time to get your breath and get back to work. Be sure to moan each time you put your mouth on his cock. Let him know you love it. When you feel him getting ready to come begin sucking harder but don’t loose your rhythm unless you think he wants to go faster. This action will take you to the destination. Soon you will be sucking down gobs of delicious fluid. When you taste it be sure to let him know that you love it and suck more frantically as if you are trying to get more. Until he starts to jerk. Then be easy, cause he is more sensitive right after his orgasm.
Rinse and repeat!

Everyone form a line in front of WWs.Just don't expect
to be remembered.If she can't remember,the times,You're
not anything special! Irish

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i agree with what everyone said...and sucking is my favorite thing to do...

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I beleive in the sweet spot, soft-core pornography, opening your presents Christmas morning rather than Christmas Eve, and I beleive in long, slow, deep, soft, wet kisses that last three days. Kevin Costner/Bull Duram

"Your body as well as mine has needs. This is juat a little foreplay to highten our desire for each other. If we play out the game of love to it's natural conclusion, you'll experience fulfillment. Give yourself up to me and I'll guide you along the path to pareadise. Together we will be like fire and ice, love and hate, life and death." Virginia Henley

WANTED: a moment when you kiss someone and eveything around you becomes hazy. And the only thing in focus is you and this person and you relize that he is the only person your suppose to kiss for the rest of your life. And for one moment you get this amazing gift. You want to laugh and you want to cry. Cause you feel so lucky that you found it and so scared it will all go away at the same time.

Sorry , but i REALLY can't help you on this matter. For my "Point of View" is only directed toward pleasures of the female kind.

Guess i'm saying, If ya pay close of enough attention to ya partner, You'll know what they REALLY like. People are like books, to get to know them you not only have to open the Cover, but it helps if you read EVERY page..*wink*

Maybe ya can use Sumpin i said to answer ya question... hehe

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[QUOTE]Originally posted by Lovediva
I slowly start kissing my way down toward his belly, with my hand massaging his balls...when I reach it's head..I slowly and very lightly kiss is and circle the head with my tongue. I don't put it in my mouth right away.. after teasing the head for about 10-15 minutes... I grab the cock in one hand, balls in the other and take it all in... in a slow rhytmic motion..all the way down my throat it goes... slowly at first, then faster with my lips and tongue wrapped firmly around it.. I insert my tongue and explore it's tiny hole..mmmmmm..when I feel like it's about to explode..I back off a little as I don't want it to cum right away..a good blow job should last an hour or more... I then put the balls in my mouth and give them a good tongue bath... I do the same with the anus...
I then return to the head and suck a bit harder and faster..then the love nibbles start.....when he is about to explode... I make sure he is all the way down my thraot...and I suck every delicious ounce out of him...mmmmmm...I don't stop the blow job there, I keep it going until it's nice and hard again...

Ahhhhh geeee I am so sorry...you wanted a man's opinion...sorrryyyyyyyyyyyy [/QUOTE

An hour or so - wow you are patient and must have a strong jaw! Sounds like you have a lucky man.

http://www.thesexacademy.com/articl...to/Blow_job.htm

I have posted a couple of links to this site - but I would be surprised if anyone didn't enjoy studying their pictures and advice??!!

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Oh yeah. Now I remember what I was going to ask. How can you tell if a guy is about to cum? (for the stopping a little before he does)
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~Easily Amused.

GOD, you have all got me so horned up talking about blow jobs. Wants to try all these ideas out with my wife!

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"There's nothing inherently dirty about sex, but if you try real hard and use your imagination you can overcome that." (Lewis Grizzard)

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OHH

SExy thread.

Men adore being sucked.

spouses best is oh so light, teasing and soft, just her lips moving back, sliding up and down on the corona.
eye-contact - yes.

spilling some cum yes!!!!

Wildeye

hard as rock.

To the tune of "You Do the Hokey Pokey"

You put the penis in,
You take the penis out,
You put the penis in,
And you lick it all about ...

You do the strokey pokey
Til' it's juices all shoot out ...

That's what it's all about.

*grins at DB*

I'm gonna have that stuck in my head all day.

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