anal question from a noob

[curious1]

I would love to get my wife interested in a little anal play. Both for her and for me. She seems ok with the actual act but has refused to try it anymore because she got a little "dookie" on her finger.

How do you prevent this kind of thing from happening again? Please let me know as I would love to spice up our sex life a little!

[Galatea]

plenty of ways around it. Buy some latex gloves for finger play, plenty of lubrication of course. Enemas are good for getting over the hump until she's comfortable again. And you should ALWAYS use a condom not only for sanitary reasons but because it keeps the whole ordeal cleaner because its smooth and 'dookie' as you say, won't stick to it like it would skin.

[Sharni]

Ya gotta expect some 'dookie' when ya playing there *L*

But for me personally...to lessen the chance of that happening i give myself an enema beforehand

[cherrypie7788]

I agree with the enema advice. Anytime before I've had anal sex or oral-anal sex I've had an enema. I cant stand the thought of my partner experiencing anything like that...I'd be mortified.

[flutelady]

I'm sorry, but I had to chuckle about "dookie". Ya know, it's an exit door... if someone wants to go in the out, they gotta expect a little "resistance". I'm frankly not overly crazy about the whole anal thing, myself... although I've enjoyed it a few times in the past. If he was chomping at the bit to try it, I'd say yes... but I don't see myself doing the enema thing.

If dookie bugs her, but she otherwise enjoys anal play, I'd go with the glove suggestion. But, should some mess happen, it all washes off with soap and water. Very embarrassing though, in my experience.

[cowgirltease]

yes use an enema first. lol or don't let her eat. LMAO

[LixyChick]

Welcum to Pixies curious1!

As all has been said...I just wanted to add my welcome!

[Mark Vieth]

Have to agree with the other's here.
Use a condom, it will make things far more smoother and cleaner.