Who is more dominant in bed? You or your SO?

[phelan]

So who is more dominant in bed? I'm not talking specifically about bondage or anything but overall in the entire sexual act, from iniating it, to foreplay, to finishing it, who leads?

I know for me I don't have that "alpha-male" type of attitude so I prefer my g/f to lead more often whenever we get it on, but there are times I have to awake from my slumber :D

[Lilith]

Mr. Lil says currently he is but that has not always been the case.

[Mark Vieth]

Well usually it's me. I have had the odd one or two that wanted to take charge.

[cherrypie7788]

I prefer the male to be more dominant of course, but sometimes I take charge too.

[osuche]

I've always been the dominant one -- in and outside the bedroom. Either I select the men that way (likely) or....LMAO....It's just too much trouble to be dominant around me. :spin:

[katekate42]

Me...
Him tied down is my absolute favorite... and seems to be his as well :)

[sodaklostsoul]

Hmmmm I think it's a toss up

[Mark Vieth]

Hmmmm I think it's a toss up
Yep I bet it is!!!!^^^^

[Mark Vieth]

Hmmmm I think it's a toss up
Yep I bet it is!!!^^^^

[Stolen Kisses]

I am definatley more dominant in bed. Although I would love for it to be him. I tell him I want him to take more control but it rarely happens. Hmmmm here's to the next 7 1/2 yrs of getting it right! :devilish:

Barb

[WildIrish]

Uhhhhh...that would be me. :D

Hey, I have to be the boss somewhere! ha ha

[DangerousPet]

haha that would be him... hence the name 'pet' :)

love you hunny!! *muah!*

[Coaster]

That would be me.......... although it would be a nice twist to have her initiate occasionally

[Pita]

Mostly him but we are a good balance and I have no problem telling him what I want and how much more of it I want. :D