The Big Step

[AngelicVampires]

I finally made a "big" decision. My bf and I have been dating for almost 3 months now and we got to hang out Monday night and all day Tuesday. It was wonderful. We cashed in our V-cards to each other Monday night and I have to say, nothing could have prepared me for such new sensations. I expected it to hurt (and oh buddy did it ever) but I think a lot of it was nerves, leading to clenched muscles. Tuesday rolled around and we added on another 4 times......I think I'm well on my way to being addicted, lol. Anywho, if any of you have any suggestions for us newbies, PLEASE help us out by giving us some tips!

Thanks!! :jump:

[Lilith]

make sure you are using water based lube with the condoms...will make things easier

[cowgirltease]

Wow! Thanks for sharing this with us! Just go with the flow baby.
And lots and lots of foreplay. ;)

[WildIrish]

if any of you have any suggestions for us newbies, PLEASE help us out by giving us some tips!



Have fun! With the sex and with each other. Sex is supposed to be fun! :D

[osuche]

AV -- COngratulations, and have fun. Love each other well. :wine:

[Loulabelle]

I love that Pixies is a place where people can come and say 'Guess what.....' like this.

When I lost my virginity I was desperate to kind of share my excitement about it with someone, but I couldn't....wish I could have come to somewhere like Pixies and say 'OMG I had sex for the first time last night!'.

Congrats AV:

Love + trust + communication = great sex and a great relationship! :D

[PantyFanatic]

I’m very happy for both of you. It IS a wonderful experience and one of life’s true treasures. As Loulabelle has said,:) it’s very nice to have a place and people to share such an important event. I’m happy to be here for your entrance into a whole new world.

Advice? :rolleyes2 …………….. You have a complete life to explore and experience. Go SLOW and enjoy. It really does make it better. :)

[wyndhy]

explore and commmunicate--the two most important elements i can think of. if you do those the fun will automatically follow ;)

[DangerousPet]

Love + trust + communication = great sex and a great relationship! :D

i whole heartedly agree with ya loulabelle!!!!
without trust there is no love! and communication is aways good... tell each other what you like, or dont like. explore and have a good time

[Teddy Bear]

Talk to each other, never be afraid to say I liked that or I really didn't or how bout we try this.

Love each other!!

And have fun!!!!!!!!!!!! :) :D

[bugaboo]

I think I'm well on my way to being addicted, lol.

Congratulations on finding the right lover to share that with!



Love + trust + communication = great sex and a great relationship! :D

I couldn't agree more!

[AngelicVampires]

Just happened to remember that I posted this. I reread it and thought "OMG, 4 times?!?! What the hell happened to that????" Now that I have a new bf, things are different...let's just say that patience is NOT one of my virtues, lol (but I guess I gotta deal with it *le sigh*). My name is AV and I am a crazy nympho...

[Oldfart]

Go wild safely, you will love yourself for it later.

[PantyFanatic]

....... and your partner when you have one. ;)

[AngelicVampires]

Oh I have one....he is just making us wait...forever...lol

[PantyFanatic]

So as OF said, ......... love yourself. :) (it is one of the nicest people ;) )

[Mark Vieth]

Oh I have one....he is just making us wait...forever...lol

And here I thought women could cock tease chronically....It drives you nuts when the shoe is on the other foot, as you have no control over the situation......

Don't tell me???? He probably wants to marry you first before he divides and conquers.

[AngelicVampires]

And here I thought women could cock tease chronically....It drives you nuts when the shoe is on the other foot, as you have no control over the situation......

Don't tell me???? He probably wants to marry you first before he divides and conquers.

Actually, he will settle for engagement, lol. But yes, marriage is the ultimate goal. Not saying that it's a bad thing...but my goodness it is SOOOOO FRUSTRATING!!!

[Mark Vieth]

Actually, he will settle for engagement, lol. But yes, marriage is the ultimate goal. Not saying that it's a bad thing...but my goodness it is SOOOOO FRUSTRATING!!!


All I can say is look at your quote under your username there......seems to me you are getting a taste of your own medicine. Oh well you'll just have to hmm..."ahem" relieve yourself......yourself. If you use a vib make sure you have plenty of batteries. :hair:

[AngelicVampires]

All I can say is look at your quote under your username there......seems to me you are getting a taste of your own medicine. Oh well you'll just have to hmm..."ahem" relieve yourself......yourself. If you use a vib make sure you have plenty of batteries. :hair:

Yeah, I do tease....but I also finish the job ;)

[AV's Man]

Ah those were the days... Back when this name still held it's meaning...

[Lilith]

It's obvious that in two years she has grown, changed a lot. Have you??

[AngelicVampires]

I have changed but I am not sure I have changed for the better. I am mostly happier but I still have my moments. I have started to stand up more for myself and have mostly lost the fear of being alone. I figured out that a relationship needs to work on many levels, not just a few. I am kind of surprised to see him posting here...very interesting...

[AV's Man]

It's obvious that in two years she has grown, changed a lot. Have you??

We were together for 3 years. We've only been apart a matter of months. But to answer your question, yes. She taught me a lot about myself in relation to this world and the people in it.

[Lilith]

I am kind of surprised to see him posting here...very interesting...

Well in the past he has not posted in an effort to be part of this community but to have his say in matters regarding you. It seems that has not changed.

[AngelicVampires]

To be honest....I don't feel he has changed a bit in much of anything...(just my opinion)

[BamaKyttn]

Ladies, lets be kind to the poor boy. It's a little daunting for someone to come in to a place like this where you're already the bad guy. I can't really blame him for being hesitant. I was also quite hesitant when I broke up with the man who brought me to pixies and still more hesitant when I saw that he and his consequent women were frequenting pixies and posting. I was afraid I was going to be cast out for what I did to him. People only change when they are ready to. I don't know if I have changed much over the years, you'll have to ask Souls_Cry. I know he saw a difference in me while I was dating the woman I wasted almost 7 years with, he said I had no spark, that my eyes were completely void of anything resembling joy or spirit. but I let that happen to me. All I'm saying is let the poor guy play in pixies without bringing up his previous transgressions, although it might be a good idea to try and get a new name?? It's kinda like having a tattoo of "Mike" on your ass when you're marrying "Tom" eheheh!


Sorry guys I'm in a weird mood,
Always,
Kyttn

[Lilith]

He's had other names. He's a posted previously.

[AngelicVampires]

Indeed

[AV's Man]

I do only visit this board because of AV. I hadn't been around here since she left and am only back because she mentioned it. No, I'm not stalking or obsessed... Just thought I'd read up when I saw this post and felt inclined to say a little.

Only time will tell if I have changed and if that change was for the better or worse.

I'm not here to impress anyone or defend what mistakes I've made in the past. I know I've not always been the best guy in the world and have sometimes been an outright ass.

I'm living and learning. Hopefully I'll learn fast enough not to be a jerk when I meet my maker.

[BamaKyttn]

Become another person divergent of her. I'll admit I went through my exs' postings. I searched for all posts by both Souls and Capoc but I went on about myself beyond them. Mr. Man never identify yourself by indicating you belong to that person eventually you will begin to feel as though you can't be complete without them or someone else holding you together. That isn't true. We are all whole people sometimes we just enjoy being able to lean on another when we aren't feeling up to it but if you do it too often you come to rely on others and that leads to allowing yourself to be abused and taken advantage of. Be yourself, be you separate from anyone else.


Always
Kyttn

[AngelicVampires]

He is the last person that could be abused or taken advantage of (just my opinion once again).

[AV's Man]

Become another person divergent of her. I'll admit I went through my exs' postings. I searched for all posts by both Souls and Capoc but I went on about myself beyond them. Mr. Man never identify yourself by indicating you belong to that person eventually you will begin to feel as though you can't be complete without them or someone else holding you together. That isn't true. We are all whole people sometimes we just enjoy being able to lean on another when we aren't feeling up to it but if you do it too often you come to rely on others and that leads to allowing yourself to be abused and taken advantage of. Be yourself, be you separate from anyone else.


Always
Kyttn

I think you misunderstand... However, I'm not here to be a permanent resident so I'll not say much of anything.