So is cyber and posting pics here if the other half don't know cheating?

Actually if your so much against being unfaithful and so loyal to the bibles beliefs then you shouldn't even be at a forum of this nature and looking at such pics as these because it is actually considered to be a sin.

I don't think it's cheating either. We talked about it. It's not like you're trying to put something over on me or playing games with. I'm happy you enjoy yourself. Like I said before each situation makes the question a little different. Time is more of a factor here. One kid feels the other kid gets more time than the other, etc. I'm a big kid when it comes to people I love.

Really?

Well, guess what.. I don't look at the pics on this site and my g/ f also happens to be a member of this forum.

We use Pixies as a place to get new ideas ( from the stories ) to try things and to post our opinions / experiences. i don't believe that is a sin.

The vow and promise. Marriage stipulates this in the vows but what about boy/girlfriends? The promise of monogomy must be stipulated and I think it rarely is or hasn't been for me. A lot of ppl assume fidelity. So when two ppl commit to each other they should communicate their expectations and if one can't abide by them and be faithful they shouldn't agree to them.

Sweet Chastity

Sweet Chastity;
Why is it that you are so interested in the subject of cheating. I hope you haven't done anything that you are feeling guility about.

Master1012 ---

I haven't had a chance to welcome you or your girlfriend to the site yet, so let me do that first before I go any farther. I'm glad to see you both jumping in on conversations and expressing your opinions, that's exactly what makes this place tick.

I must say, I'm really intrigued by your insistence that you don't view the pics here. I'm puzzled as to why you feel justified in getting erotic ideas from stories but not from pictures... Please please please understand that I'm not in any way attacking your beliefs, your morals, your faith, or your logic; I'm just curious!

IMHO: It seems to me that reading an erotic story and looking at an erotic image (be it a photograph or a drawing/painting) are prompted by much the same motivations --- in both cases the person engaged in the activity is seeking to indulge in some form of sexual fantasy. Words and images are, to my mind, sex toys --- as legitimate as vibrators and dildos and so on in terms of their ability to bring sexual stimulation. In this case they're stimulating the brain rather than the genitals, but the brain is very much a sex organ!

--- sweetstuff

Ok. Here's my logic - To look at a picture of another person that is erotic in nature is to somewhat lust after them.

Stories however can be turned by your brain to whatever you want them, For example, when I read a story I usually imagine my g/f and I in them instead of the characters. I don't know - I guess I am just one of those extremely faithful people...

I think "cheating" is wrong too. If u cant tell ur partner something about something ur doin and you know they would dissaprove of this activity, its wrong. I dont think pics or stories or w/e are "bad" unless u get to where u expect ur partner to look/act like the ppl in the pics or stories. ( i.e "Why cant you look that skinny/pretty/big chested/big cock....)

That's an interesting definition of sex from Macquarie. It suggests to me that merely being sexy (3) and dancing (6) are potential forms of cheating! Or is the Macquarie definition deficient in other ways? How would you define "sex"?