Not how I meant it Lixy................a left over from my preschool teacher days. When all else failed and I was about to pull my hair out I would start to whisper something silly and all the kiddies would get nosey and come find out what their insane teacher was doing this time.

I think there are things in life like sex or even net relationships where one can talk too much. Sometimes you can even listen too much, to too much crap, to too much gibberish, maybe even listen to the wrong people for advice...

....but in this instance I have been extremely vocal to my SO, a few times to the point of arguing. I listen to her needs, she listens to mine. But perhaps one of us is not cabable of the compromise that would lead us to the middle ground.

I thought love was only true in fairy tales!

Then for someone else but not for me!

Love was out to get me......

That's the way it seemed........

(garbled words here, but you get the point.....LMAO! I could make some up.....but I'll leave that to IAKG!))

And then I saw her face!

Now I'm a believer!


*Whew! I feel better..............I never could whisper......without speaking volumes!*

I came to this thread........initially thinking it was something to do with The Monkees! But you didn't hear that from me!

This thread should be about monkey's, Look at them they just shit in their hands, pick bugs off each other and have monkey sex....that is a life.

And P.S Lilith...........

I used the same whisper technique on some of the drunk customers I had while tending bar. If they were rowdy........I would lean towards them and whisper something.....anything.....to make them stop causing a commotion and listen to the fact that I was calling a cab for them and they would have to leave as soon as the taxi arrived!

Usually they would stop causing a commotion and try and be good! LMAO! The taxi still came!

STO...

I think I need a road trip.. are you up to it? ;)

Poor thing.. it will get better... no doubt she realizes how lucky she is to have you....

Thanks Lixy and Jenna...hugs to you both.