Even in a marriage, are there some things that are private?

Should anyone hack into anyone else's email?

Is anything fair to confirm actions deserving revenge?

I had a girlfriend for about three weeks who decided she didn't want to be with me for all the wrong reasons. She decided she wanted to be with another guy, for all the wrong reasons.

I found out who he was from her descriptions, and found his IM address. I created a profile as a female Dom and took him through three weeks of hell before sending all of our messages, where he gave personal details that could identify himself, to his employer, a conservative Boston law firm. I don't think they appreciated him drinking my piss from my boot!

I don't know if I got my revenge for how he messed with her mind, but it felt good.

All fair in love and war, and in this day and age I don't want or need a disease. Besides he was to dumb to have a hard password and delete his online history. Thats how I first found out, I saw alt.com and checked it out thinking it was a ordinary porn site. I was wrong it was an online personal site for anything that floats your boat.

I wasn't judging you, just trying to understand.

Got burnt badly when very young trying for revenge, so I've never been mean enough to try any overt acts of vengence...I think doing well may be the way to go...I have a dream of someday saying to a certain someone, "Yes I am...and you are...?" :P

I didn't think you were judging me, just confused on why.;) This is the same man who told me I was sexually deviant for suggesting anything that wasn't "normal," but thought he could do as he pleased behind my back. Kinda like John Leguzamo in Son of Sam where he couldn't go down on his wife or do anal. Now thank God I have a man I can trust and is just as sexually deviant as me!:eek:

yeah, let's hear it for deviants!

It's always good to hear when orbits do coincide.

going down? anal? I'm there :D

Oh, our orbits didn't coincide it was more like the big bang!:D