I agree!

Remember that the original (and still technically correct) definition of "virgin" is *not* someone who has never had sex, but rather, someone who has never been married.

True it has come to mean someone who has never had sex, but well, different people have different ideas of what constitutes 'sex', so instead of saying "you're wrong", when confronted by someone who claims s/he has never had sex, then ask "what do *you* mean by sex"?

I agree with Aqua but as Dicksbro said,Bill Clinton disagrees with
us.To ME,oral sex is much more intimate than vaginal sex! Irish
P.S.Different strokes,for different folks!

Sorry to get off subject, and I know you will jab Clinton at any time for any reason Irish, but Clinton asked the judge to define sexual relations and based on what the judge gave as a definition is how he answered. Not saying that it made it ok, just saying that Clinton did not define what constitutes 'sexual relations'. And as a lawyer you know he's going to use any loophole possible, just like any other lawyer OR politician.

i hate liar bitch

Aqua---I don't need a reason.He stands for everything that I
don't value in a person!You also have to remember that most
judges are also FORMER lawyers!Don't write in people---Clinton
is like Jeff Gordon.People either love him or hate him.There is
almost no one in between. Irish

why people have to keep their virgin until marry? why ? i don't get it.

most of us now marry at a very mature age, is not like we are going to marry at 18 . most of us now marry after 25.

we all human, we all have feeling, wh can't i have sex when I have a feeling that I need sex. WHen people reach a certain age, the body build and develop pretty good, then it is automatic you can feel that you need that type of initimate. I think now kids grow up and develop quicker than my time. That doesn't mean I presure my kids to have sex before they turn 18. Just go with the flow. as long as you learn how to protect from HIV/AID or pregnancy. that is fine for me.

Chinese pussy like straight to the point and honest. Don't like to be a liar bitch. That is what I am.

in my religon as budism, I haven't hear that I couldn't have sex before marry or have sex more than one guys/

I don't like the idea of being virgin until marry. "that sound so stupid" to me

please tell Chinese pussy if Chinesepussy said was wrong.

Merriam-Webster says:

Virgin (1)
1,a) An unmarried woman devoted to a religion.

2,a) An absolute chaste young woman. b) an unmarried girl or woman

3) Virgin Mary

4) A person who has not had sexual intercourse

5) A female animal that has never copulated

Virgin (2)
Free of impurity or stain. Unsullied. Chaste. Characteristics of or befitting a virgin. Modest. Fresh. Unspoiled. Being used or worked for the first time. Initial first. Pristine. Not altered by human activity.

Someone get this chick on the phone........she needs a good talking to! LOL! I think those who have anal and oral and whatever beside vaginal are just fooling themselves into thinking they are "good girls". So fuckin what if they still have a hymen? And lot's of "virgins" will tell you that they may not have their hymen anymore because of tampon or vibrator use....but that they are still a virgin because they have never been screwed! Pfffffft! Can you say ostrich?

just hope she was "playing" safe!
Scarey to think that just because it wasn't vaginal sex that it "don't count"
I hope I have managed to pass on safety aspect of sex to my kids (well, the 14yr old atleast)

Speaking of kids..... we have pretty open communication with ours... especially the oldest....

Was kinda curious about what the girls in his generation thought about this and asked him. He said that he knew of a few that practiced in anal sex just so they would remain "virgins" He said the he didn't know who was kidding who. Most of the guys didn't really care, and in fact the "anal girls" seemed to get more action than the others. No worries about pregnancy was the main topic of this, and he said that he didn't think that was a good thing cause anything dripping could enter the taboo area.....

In his opinion (he is 20 now), thos girls are deluding themselves........ and a lot of guys just take advantage of that.

CelticAngel, you're so right!

These girls don't seem in the least bit worried that anal sex (not just gay, but heterosexual anal sex too) is one of the easiest ways to pass on viruses such as HIV.

Hell, I've always been less worried about pregnancy (I can control that myself with oral contraceptives) than I am about STDs. Isn't that message getting across?

Lou - I don't think it is..... and that is worrisome. Many teens, by nature go through the stage that they are immortal... and don't think beyond the pregnancy issue. I find myself totally amazed at this because they (girls) don't see the ramifications of what they are doing.......... and the boys are seemingly taking advantage of the situation. Now, don't take me wrong, I am not male bashing, because the boys can be effected as well as the girls can regarding STDs, but I am concerned for the girls, as emotionally, they are putting themselves in situations that they shouldn't be putting themselves.......... and some boys are using that to their advantage.

Sometimes, I wonder about who talked who into practicing anal sex and saying that by doing so is o.k.

The pleasures of anal sex:) were one of the last things that was explored for me, and not by months or a couple years:(. Was that just me or was it the culture of the times?:confused:

I have to say that anal sex is NOT something I was even thinking about when I first became sexually active.

I certainly viewed it as 'the wrong hole' if my partner wittingly or unwittingly (?) ventured there, rather than it being an 'alternative hole'. As I've said a hundred times before here though, I'm still virtually unexplored in that area....it's definitely something I've always thought of as something to graduate to, not something to start with!

LOL
To have that wandering dick give you a case of pucker butt? Been there done that...

Lou - it is actually quite nice if done right... I have had a massive orgasm from butt play and a toy... hmmmmmmmmmmm thinking about getting one of those double ones...