But hey, I feel good that you wanna see my dick.

But the number of viewers is restricted to one.

You guys have serious issues...let me just say that getting even is a bad thing. You guys need to have a long talk about whats pissing you off. I guarantee you will do more dmg with revenge.

rastapope and cheyanne are right here. I hope you and your husband can talk openly and fix thingsI don't feel making him jealous is the best answer.

CP, you have to get over this. You're posting on a sex site. Haven't you and him posted together? Time for some more pics of you two, together! :) Don't try to make him jealous . . . you've admitted you're insecure, don't make it worse by flaming the fire.

Sorry to be so blunt but two wrongs don't make a right.

Re: Can the Man in Pixes make him jealouse???
 

CP,
I've posted many nude pics on this site. I can't do much for the handsome part, but I'm definitely nude!

But there's not a chance in hell I'm going to send you any pics, now that you've told me what you're going to do with them.

You're getting far too worked up about who's "Right" and who's "wrong". This is a marriage, not a competition!
You say you're mad at him for looking at asian porn after he'd promised he wouldn't. This means TALK, not war! You need to discuss what you expect from him and what he expects from you, and why he feels looking at asian porn is ok, and why you don't.

But making him jealous? How is that helpful?

My suggestions:
* Deal with your insecurities. Listen when he tells you he loves you - because he does! Surely it's far better for him to look at porn on the web than have an affair with someone you know? If he were sleeping with someone else, you'd have every right to be jealous and angry - and yes, some revenge might be allowable then. But that's not happening - you have a great husband who loves you very much, and even though he may look at other women - yes, even Asian women! - he is still married to you, isn't he? He still comes home to you, doesn't he? He still makes love to you, doesn't he?

* Understand that a happy marriage doesn't have partners TRYING to hurt each other, TRYING to make each other jealous, TRYING to fight a war with each other! If there's a problem, you HAVE to solve it by talking. Getting angry and looking for revenge is NOT going to work! By trying to hurt him, you end up hurting yourself first, and your marriage second.

What do you expect him to do when he sees a nude man as his wallpaper? Do you think he'll say "Oh, CP is trying to tell me something, I should stop looking at Asian porn like she wants"? Is that what you're hoping to get?
What I think will most likely happen - and forgive me, I don't know your husband or yourself very well at all - I think he'll get angry, or at least very annoyed. But if anything, he'll look at MORE Asian women, just to make YOU jealous! And you'll end up each trying to make the other jealous. STOP IT!!!

I'm sorry if I sound like I'm bullying you, CP - I don't mean to. But I seriously think you need to think about what you're trying to achieve and how you're going about it.

Good luck, my thoughts, heart and prayers are with you.
CasperTG

I think everyone here agrees that you have some issues in your relationship CP, you really need to be a little more grown up about your problems. Trying making your husband jealous is only going to make things worse for you both....If you've tried talking together about your problems, I don't mean you just yelling at him beacuse you don't like what he's doing, and it hasn't worked then the best advice I can give would be for you both to seek professional help go see a marriage guidance counsellor!!

Maybe you need an impartial 3rd person to help you both open up about your fears and feelings

Good luck!

thank you very much for all the answer here expecially CasperTG

now this sounds like is all my fault

i think you guys are right:( i should listen to you guys

Just my 2 cents...

Jealousy isn't healthy in a good relationship... it is just another game of manipulation... I wouldn't recommend it..

CP---I won't go into a long oration,but we(wife&I)have been married for 38yrs.She is very attractive,and I have been told,that
I have always been&still am,physically&mentally attractive.We have both been very jealous people but over the years we have
realised that,respecting the other,not taking the other for granted
and talking things out,are what stabilize a relationship.I used to get extremly jealous but finally realised that if she didn't really
love me,she wouldn't have stuck by me through so much.Have a
SERIOUS talk with your mate.As others have said,making him
jealous will only create problems.I am far from a relationship
counsellor,but can only add my $.02. Irish
P.S.We have gotten to be "Best Friends"besides being married
and that was only accomplished by mutual discussion.

You're very welcome ChinesePussy!! I just hope I can help!


Well, that's not reallly what I was trying to say - it's not a matter of right or wrong, his fault or yours etc. You've done the right thing by telling him it bothers you!

Now it's just a matter of listening to what he says, and seeing if you two can reach an understanding, or at least a compromise.

Good luck CP, let us know how things turn out, ok?
CasperTG

Irish and CasperTG

thank you again