Wow...roflmao

Tried polyamory but could never find anyone quite as wonderful as my wife. Also learned that I need the closeness and attachment of a relationship, not just casual sex, but my wife found she could enjoy the casual sex. Talk about the reversal of our original ideas going into it. So we talk about it and hope someday to meet the right people, people you can love and trust, just like you do your spouse. Friends with benefits as it were.

Hey Lovediva. Isn't more than two appendages a bit of a waste?

Crichton, I agree totally with your comments -- I have found that I need "friends with benefits"

I'm happy with my wife. I know I was terribly lucky to find such a great gal. :)

Osuche,

The key of course is finding those people. I know people who are into open relationships, and I know people who are friends, but right now those are different circles.

He's just gonna hound you for 4 handjobs. ha ha

Crichton -- yes, it's rare to find such people. I have occasionally been so blessed...but very few people fit the criteria for "friends with benefits."

Good luck finding another for yourself...