All of these questions are just like asking "what do you think is kinky?"....its all in the view point.

Exactly and I am asking for people's views.

I'd rather talk about what I think is kinky...a topic that is neither obsessive nor arrogant

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Confidence is a presence you can feel, arrogance is projected to everyone and overcomes

Interested is saying hi, psycho stalker is waving from across the road while looking through your binoculars

Competitive is trying to do your best in all things, obsessive is having to be the best.

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Couldn't have said it better myself Skip! Nicely put!