i had pleanty of lovers before i met jeeping, sinc i met him almost 5 yrs ago hes been the only one....................
that said, no i dont nessacarly want more lovers outside his and my relationship, but i wud totally absoluty positivly LOVE to have some couples WITH us, or singles with us whatever we happen to find.
also i have said to him that when hes deployed he is more than allowed to have one night stands, i have rules for this tho NOTHING is to be broght home, kids or STDS , and he has to 100% use protection . he has not taken advantage of my offer yet i think its only because he knows when he does i do LOL (sames rules apply to me) i seriously wud have no probs over that, ive thought long n hard about it and just am not an jealous person.

~nikki

Nikki -- I am the same way. Too bad he's such a stick in the mud. :D

Jealousy just wastes time and energy...I know that I have his heart....although I also believe that the heart is big enough for more than one person.

I don't feel that for me, it's a question of how many. If my first lover had been the right man for me, I'd have never looked beyond him. But he wasn't, and that's ok. My hope is that I'm older and (hopefully) wiser now.... and that maybe my search is over.

Growing up at the time of free love and Woodstock I've had a lot of different experiences. I've also had a few since being married, both together and seperatly with full consent. But is there more? I'd like to think so.

P.S. Sign me up on your list Lilith

I'm not going to tell you how wide and far I have spread my seed. I need to find emotional and sexual balance and things are looking up.

I'm the same way. When I finally find the right one I'll be satisfied with that. I'm a quality over quantity person too.

Depends on a lot of things.

I honestly don't think I want to experience any more lovers.....I've had 5 so far, and the fifth will probably be the last.....unless Fussy and I do ever experiment with threesomes etc, but at the moment neither of us feel the need to do anything but talk about it.

Every lover is different and deep down I hunger for that variety.

I won't risk my relationship for a fling, but still . . . . .

I've had more than my fair share of lovers. I really don't know what I want. It's very hard to me say I'm sexually satisfied. I get bored easy with the same ol thing.

I've had well over 30 and there'll probably be a few more this summer alone but I'd settle down if the right guy came along. Then again, I tend to move so the "right guy" can't find me. :D

I think I've experienced pretty much everything, just have to get to a group sex party.

Having a variety of lovers has made me realize we need more men like WI (apologies to other Pixie men who share his philosophy). Men who love, nay need to perform oral sex, unselfish lovers. . . those men make women settle down.

I'm with you on this one! That doesn't mean that the fantasy of the possibility isn't fun or exciting. Like others have said if the opportunity and timing were right for others to join in, I would be open to that. For me the most important aspect to being sexually satisfied comes from having someone in my life who allows me to be me and express the possibilities of new sexual experiences. Being able to appreciate openly a strangers sex appeal goes a long way! Being able to play here and flirt and perv without jealousy is also a huge part! :)

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Is that all at once?????

You do realise that there are 15 in a rugby team? I normally play at Number 8 ;)

Glyndwr, don't get me thinking about yummy Welsh Rugby lads....I'm an engaged woman! LOL

I have only been with one person, my husband. At times I am curious about what it would be like to be single and how far would I go and how quickly, but then again, I would be single and be sitting in front of this computer not meeting anyone to hook up with.

I am too scared to be with anyone else and know that if it was a "cheating" situation, I just couldn't live with myself.

I remind myself daily "there's nothing wrong with dreamin'"