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What are you trying to get him to do?

maybe putting it in writing. Send him a card or something (prefereably at work...the feeling will stick with him all day...) and on the inside, write what you would like to do when he comes home...

Of course if that doesn't work, there's always cowgirl's advice. It's been my experience that enough bacardi will break even the strongest man. :devilish: