[QUOTE=Mark Vieth]

"Who are you and what do you want?"

If you know who you are and what you want, half the battle is won.[QUOTE]


Also, stop looking! Don't put so much pressure on yourself. When you least expect it.. :lurv: ..BAM.. :lurv: ..it will hit you smack dab in the middle of you heart. She will feel it and you will too.

But for now...enjoy life!


And as far as the girls going for the wrong guys....It is just something we have to do so when the right one comes along well know it. Might not be at that moment but there is a time for everything.

As far as getting out of bed....just remember the girl of your dreams is out there somewhere but she may not have your address so you need to go outside and remember each day is a new chance to meet that certain someone.

Natalie

grneyes makes a very good point here. I found my wife when I was not looking to hook up with anyone. I didn't try to put my best face forward, so to speak, and was completely myself. She did the same thing and we fell in love. When you're you try to make it happen, it just doesn't. Any relationship you do manage to start will most likely be doomed if it stems from trying to make it happen.

Keep your chin up and work hard at being yourself and things will fall into place.

Good luck!

thanks for the advice ladies and gents.

very much appreicated...and i will keep those ideas in mind.

Count not what is lost but what is left Source: (Chinese)

I think the trick is to figure out how to be happy without a girlfriend.

Now, if I knew how to do that.....

It's part of life..we make mistakes and we learn from them. Some learn faster then others.

When I was your age I thought I knew what I wanted and tried to be someone other then myself. Did'nt get me very far. But I learned to accept who I was and what I liked. Just continue to do the everyday things you do and one day what your looking for will find it's way to you.


The waiting game sucks!!!!!! But it's soooo worth it in the end!!

No Belial...the trick is to make a life for yourself, so when the girl comes along you can slip her into your life.


Ya both are young yet and have plenty of time to find that special girl. Like I've said the waiting sucks, but it's part of life. Life cange change in an instant.

You people are amazing!

Thanks again :D