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In the times I've brought my love to orgasm orally, only a couple of times was there any more noticeable wetness. Once, certainly, her minute squirt, and another time barely tasteable some different taste in her vagina. Usually all the wetness is my generous flow of saliva and her already present vaginal moisture.
I use my own sensuality gates and listen for any signal from her to continue and/or alter my activity. I'm extremely fortunate in ONE area in my life. I have a sense of sexual/sensual connectivity in oral sex that seems to give me the capacity to listen for guidances.
Another advantage I've discovered is my affinity for penis, sucking one and feeling the sperm pump out and into my mouth. Since I feel the (in)vulnerability, (in)vincibility, utter total surrender and exposedness of the male in the instances of my orgasming and ejaculation I have found sexual/sensual security in oral sex. Granted I love the definitive instant presented in sperm delivery. At this point I understand that it is a stretch for some to consider a same sex opportunity for feedback. Regardless, it is valuable to enhancing the learning curve and raising one's awareness of sexual/sensual capacity and limitations. :x:
The female orgasm, absent the pulse and delivery of sperm is to me very much the same as my own. Knowing what I experience in the ejaculation and the delirium I enjoy with the orgasm in my body, I tune in to her (and our together) rhythms being sensitive to the change in her pussy tensions and relaxings. Her response or lack of response is a specific signal to me to do or not do something. With each successive implementation of a new instruction I receive involuntary feedback to my sensuality subconscious. Through determined concentrated practice I've learned how to eat pussy to total absorption of her and my senses respectively, which usually take her to at least a mild sensory orgasm. I never hurry. I always stop and wait if asked and always remain attentive to the will of my lover. :bj: :licker:

I've never "struck oil", as such, but there's no mistaking that moment when she goes over the cliff...maybe just a combo of her legs stiffen, her hands urging my head to JUST THE RIGHT SPOT, of course there's the pulsing pressure of her vagina apparently trying to turn itself inside-out, and yes, maybe just a little extra wetness there...it's hard to tell with my tongue in place, since I'm always doing my best to supply my own moisture to the mix. I have felt that little bit of a gush when administering a finger-fuck orgasm, tho...

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Its hard to fully explain as it goes beyond the sexual thrill, its also the thrill of pleasing them and knowing that they got what they wanted and enjoyed.