Fussy let me put in his details and because I can't be arsed with numbers, I got him to make it so I could post the pretty picture (I left out the ethnic groups he doesn't belong to, and Lexington Steele because I don't really know him)

Notice how similar he is to Mr Right?


I'm a lucky lucky lucky lucky lady. :D

Compare your Penis (to Pornstars and more).
 

Let's just say that by some measures I'm pathetically disappointing.

However, I find that what's usually missing is a discussion of the relative sizes of penis and vagina. An overlarge penis that won't fit into a vagina is more useless than a small one that can go in easily.

The way I see it, my penis could be tiny or huge and it wouldn't make much of a difference as I have nobody to share it with. :(

I've never measured my girth.

Another thing though is for me at least there is a big difference between regular erection, and a REALLY happy erection.

I still think you (men) waste too time thinking about your penis size.

I can honestly say I have never made a decision about whether or not to have sex based on the size of a penis. Whether or not to have ANAL sex, yes.

:buttsex:

WW

Here here or is it hear hear anyway good comment WW

Ditto.

I don't really waste any time thinking about it - I'm happy with the fact that I've got one and it works.

But I don't think it's a fear that we won't get sex because of the size, I think it's more a concern that we won't be 'as good' as if we had a monster down there.

I think the only thing it makes a difference to, is a man's confidence. I've always felt that size doesn't matter to me, and I have to confess I sometimes find sex with Fussy painful, however I think there's a psychological kick for a lot of women of having a man with a 'big one'. I think WW's right though - it hasn't hindered my enjoyment of the men I've been with or altered my decisions at to whom I choose as a sexual partner.

So you mean to tell me that you've never had sex with a well hung guy just to see if you can fit it in? Even when you were younger?

I haven't measured myself lately, but I gave a pretty good estimate, and suffice to say I'm probably the smallest guy here, and let me just say I've never had a woman approach me for sex simply because she was curious as to what I was packing.

Known plenty of women who were chasing after a guy because they wanted to see what he was packing.

Nearly every ad I see on the sex personals are all looking for men with 8" plus.

I will never be in a pornographic movie. The only small dick genre of porn is the cuckold videos, and I don't feel like being the small white guy who wanks off while my on screen wife is doing hung studs. In my mind, I believe I should be with the big boys too!

Of course, I could try to argue that I make up for my lack of size with skill and stamina, but the fact I've not had sex in four years and probably won't be having sex for many more means that women aren't buying it or think I am worth the risk.

OK forget all the numbers I'm average (sigh) lol

can honestly say I would have never judged the size had I not come across (NO pun intended) a man who I think had the smallest dick in history (we're talking Ripley's Believe It Or Not here). His dick...fully erect...was the size of a petite woman's pinky finger. The girth was nil and the length was about 2" at best!!!!!!!!!!!

Found out later he married and has two children. Not that I thought it impossible...just improbable! Dunno if he is still married to this day but I have to relate this...

He had a pick-up truck with wheels on it that measured to the top of my forehead. I am 5'4" tall...so the wheels were about 5'ish.

Um...yeah...um...what else can I say except that he saw my response to his dick (didn't mean to be so transparent) and we never did/tried anything.























Just had a roaming thought!

Sweetie, there have times in my life when I absolutely quivered at the though of a particular person's cock plunging into my little pussy. But in each situation, I had already decided to fuck him before I knew what he was "packing"

I suppose the closest to an exception would be the time I went through a phase of fucking college and professional athletes, mostly football players. I am a tiny Woman, and yes the size of these giant men fucking me was a HUGE turn on. But it was a phase that was about physical strength and power. Just the thought of fucking a man so big and strong he could walk around with his hands free, while I was impaled on his cock, my arms legs wrapped around him... well, it was and is intense. I can not explain the feel of this, other than to say it was about the strength, not the size of his cock. Many of these men did not have huge penises. Some where surprising small, though not tiny.

I don't really read sex personals other than for my own sense of humor, especially the "women seek men" listings, but I have read them on occasion. Some are very funny. A lot are by professional escorts pretending to be "lonely women" But I don't remember very many with that size requirement. But you read them more than I, I am sure. But why would a "lonely woman" care if you're 6 inches or 8, or whatever? Believe me, if a Woman is looking for a certain size, I think she is looking for a thick one, not a long one. Or at least I would be...

You said two things I don't understand when I read them together:

"....I've never had a woman approach me for sex simply because she was curious as to what I was packing."

"...Known plenty of women who were chasing after a guy because they wanted to see what he was packing."

This is contradictory. First you say no one approched you from curiosity, but you know of others are being chased out of curiousity.

Curiosity means they don't know what's there, so it isn't penis size then, is it?

When I add these statements



This tells me it is your confidence that is the issue.

Sweetie, if you act and carry yourself as a man without self confidence, this makes you less attractive... so a Woman is going to be much less likely to "check out what you're carrying"

Porn movies?

Sweetie, why judge yourself against men who have been carefully screened and selected for cock size? I sure don't compare my 34A/b's against the silicone implants of female porn stars, not unless I want to feel REALLY bad, anyway.

Dont worry so much.

WW

That's funny, WW - I always imagine you feeling REALLY good! :slurp: :D

When you are imagining the guy you would like to fuck do you imagine a long, thick penis or a smaller, thinner one?

And what i am getting at is that every woman goes through a jocks phase, but not every man goes through a cheerleader phase. I never had one as I just thought most of them were stupid and cheerleaders were way out of my league.

There are men out there who like all shapes, colours and sizes of girls from all walks of life and social strata.

Not so with women as my experience tells me.



Well I noticed the being picky about men more form couples than anything, and most women I see on dating sites are obviously spam bots anyways.



As for women being curious? You ladies do talk do you not? I've known more than one woman who wanted to fuck a friend of mine because they heard he was packing some serious wang from another female friend.

Contrast to a friend of mine who tried to spread the word around about my gifted tounge back in 2003-2004 so I could get over my fiancee dumping me by having sex with someone new. She was met with a lot of "Honestly, you had sex with him?! You're nasty!"

I also get called ma'am a lot despite having short hair or even five o'clock shadow.




No, becuase remember, three years ago, you guys all told me that confidence was the issue, but when we delved deeper into my life we all came to the conclusion that first I have to actually have something to offer a woman before she will even find me attractive.

I was 25 y/o, living with my parents, couldn't hold a job longer than a few months, depressed, morbidly obese, etc.

All the confidence in the world won't change those stats, simply working on myself as a person, and becoming a man will get me respect.



Oh I think the fact that I get confused for a woman and have man tits is the reason I don't get many women checking me out. Plus, I'm so jaded with women at this point that if one was to flirt with me I'd assume it was all some cruel jape.

Simply put, I'm not an attractive person. I know this, and you too know this, and we both know that false bravado is never attractive.



Not ever porn has fake breasts or even skinny 18 y/o women who are cleanly shaven.

I've yet to see small dick porn.

Hell, I've yet to meet a woman who prefers small men.

I've met quite a few women who would make out with me, maybe feel what I was packing, but as soon as I got done eating them out they would come up with some excuse as to why they had to leave and I never heard from them again.

Kind of makes me believe that even if a woman were to get past all my bitterness and decide that spending time alone with me wouldn't be bad that she just won't handle the fact that her date for the evening has a small penis.



No worries here. I'm 28, and I realized I'm not dating again and I realized long ago I wasn't friends with benefits/baby daddy material. Just a sexless drone second husband/step-father.

In my mind I think I deserve to be first husband and my genes should be passed on, but I also know no one here would like to see that happen. I'd make a terrible father/husband.