Now, everyone here has really good advice, and it's all probably based on more experience than I could imagine. I don't claim to be in any position to give out advice, but the one thing that comes to my mind is this, and it goes for anyone who is having the same problem. You can twist and suck and blow and jerk until the cows come home (and won't those cows be surprised what you're up to when they do), but make sure the gentleman's completely comfotable. In my limited experience, if a guy is nervous about anything, the show does not get to the finale. That's just my little chunk of advice.

Don't be afraid to make some noise. I love it when my girlfriend blows me and is really noisy. The suction sounds drive me crazy. Moaning sets up a great vibration on my cock. If she sounds really into it, I can't hold back. So ... Make some noise baby!!!

garman---It's;especially;good;if she hums;the Star Spangled Banner.I'll;guarantee;that you'll;stand at attention&salute!
Irish

How true Irish - how true - lol

Head
 

Giving head is a true form of art ,i know when i'm doin my bf i make noise,moan n groan because it just turns me on so much.An idea thats really exciting and gets us both goin ,giving head in the car while he's driving,yeah it could be dangerous but it's such a rush and so intense,i can't wait to get in the car and head down the highway .And its a big turn on for him too:)

starting i love getting head. i feel a little guilty getting blown though seems kind of one sided. personaly i need the reassurance that i'm not the only one enjoying themself. at least i think that's what it is. anyway i find that a large portion of good sex is mental. if i feel weird or start worrying about life in general i see that i don't perform as well. thinking takes valuble blood and moves it away from my cock and puts it towards my brain. been told i'm normal and during sex i find it's better to let the little head do the thinking. this might apply to your man's problem

Yep, a lot of it is mental. However, be sure that he can enjoy the view of it when you give him head. If you have long hair, it might be in the way if you don't pull it aside. And remember to look up at him and give him one of your most seductive smiles once in a while, that's really arousing...

Training makes an expert, but enthusiasm takes you a long part of the way!

Dzbuster
 

Now you know i luv it !!! Cum on have you ever heard me complain..?????? Hmmmmmm :)