I have heard this argument too Quinda. Without a doubt. Some women find that they cant feel the shaft when the head is very large. They say that when the man first enters he feels good but after that the woman can barely feel anything.

Thats why I wanted an overall opinion.

Any preference orally, visually, anally? Etc.?

Erect I think they all look good :-) Anally I think if it's proportionate then it's more comfortable at first, orally, never really thought about it. As long as the tip is clear and well defined to lick, then I like it.

I don't care about the shape. I just like something thick. I like to be filled up, stretched. Length wise, I prefer at least 6 inches, so when in the right positon, we can hit rock bottom. :))

as nikki mentioned the most important is the stiffness, longer the stiff its better, more over women love it the way it moves, its very important. should practice different movements, different strocks, basically the rythem counts, it starts with slower trust and then gap in bettween is ideal.