Let's see ass up with ball between my legs...ummmmmmm touch or tackle I'm in:p

And if you're predictable . . . what ideas does she offer to bring spice into your love life?

Seriously folks, if the lady says something like this, you'd better listen! She might not know what she wants, but she's telling you she's not getting it.

1) Make time for her. You might have to hijack her to get her away from daily chores and responsibilities, but she'll love you for it.

2) Mount a charm offensive. You might feel stupid buying her flowers and perfume out of the blue but - hey - things like that can melt an ice maiden.

3) Take her shopping for clothes, and don't whinge about how long it takes and how your feet are hurting. You might be able to talk her into shorter skirts and revealing tops if she thinks you'll really love her like that.

4) Make a hairdressing appointment for her. If she gets her hair done the way you like, you pick up the tab.

5) They're right! Take sex out of the bedroom. Try every room in the house.... The odd dirty week-end will give her something to remember (but make sure of the period status first).

6) Finally - good luck. Let us at Pixies know how you get on.

I would say to try a lot of new things. Instead of the usual repetoire of missionary, doggie, her on top, do something new. Sensual massage, some Kama Sutra...don't expect everything to be the same, and it won't be. Good luck!

Nothin worse than same ole.same ole....ya get bored,thats not good.But it takes two....you only get what you give.

This is not a new book, but it's a very good one, I think. Pick up a new or used copy (it comes in paperback) of How to Light Her Fire. You might also pick up a copy of How to Light His Fire for her. She has great ideas for putting passion back into your relationship--and not just in the bedroom. I know that How to Light Her Fire comes on tapes, too, in case you hate to read.