She does 90% of time. I really enjoy feeling her cum, she usually gets 1-2 or 3 etc, I have had a mega shag fest where I got her to orgasm 11 times. Love eating her pussy, love sucking her nipples to orgasm. If I come first I feel drained but I always do all I can to get her to Nirvana.

When I had a boyfried he always came first between my cheeks.

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It always used to be that I came first - lack of control being the main problem, especially with a new partner. Now I try and either cum with her or shorlty afterwards.

However, as Lady Tango said, it helps to get Buckslady worked up with a lot of oral and finger foreplay, then when I penetrate, her clit is already highly stimulated.

I hate cumming before the woman does. I usually eat my way to her orgasm a few times then poke her good until she cums again :) Control is the key ;)

My DW is soooo sensitive, she usually comes just as I'm penetrating....then 4 or 5 times before I get there, and then 2 or 3 more while i'm just resting there, inside her, feeling her pussy spasm around my wilting member.

she does without a doubt!

Honestly it depends on how long it has been since I've had an orgasm last. My penis will be especially sensitive if it's been a long time and therefore it's more difficult to control things. My S/O usually climaxes first, in ideal circumstances.

My wife is usually incapable of vaginal orgasms! Which of course means more joy for me as I get to eat her to make her cum BEFORE intercourse. The feeling inside a just-cummed woman is HEAVEN!!!

Actually, we generally come just about at the same time--the movements she makes as she comes will generally drive me over the edge. Also, she likes it vigorous as she comes which also is likely to push me over the edge.


As to the earlier poster who feels that many of the men on here are lying--a lot of it comes down to what you do to her. If you have sex like in a porno movie you aren't going to last very long and she's probably going to be far from orgasm when you blow.
Instead, we have two basic actions: A gentle thrusting that doesn't really involve the traditional in-out movement. I remain basically fully penetrated but alter how I'm pressed against her. It's not as intense as traditional sex but I'd much prefer 20 or 30 minutes this way to a few the traditional way.
The other thing we do is a very slow full stroke, taking perhaps 10-15 seconds to fully withdraw and reinsert, then often remaining pressed against her for another 5-10 seconds as she bucks from the intensity.

My GF and I don't have full intercourse because she won't until she's married... so it's just limited to hand/fingers and oral. I pretty much take care of her first because she seems to like it that way. I wonder if that takes care of all her enthusiasm since she seems kinda straight-forward on satisfying me... no teasing or anything. When I don't get her off first she often gives more effort....

You mean that someones supposed to come?No wonder;we always get so frustrated;during sex;and avoid it;if possible.Our
daughters(2);were concieved;by immaculate conception! Irish

Id say my SO and are about 50-50, however when i do come first she is ussually close and i can ussually keep it for 5 to 10 minutes

Men can cum once easily; ladies several times with a bit of practice and TLC. So it makes sense for the man to save it up for the Grand Finale. Unless, of course, he is going to cum twice.

Question : When do men want to cum twice?
Answer : Before they've cum once.

Poor men - so deprived of orgasms....

I usually try to help my wife to cum first because so often once it happens to me, it's hard for me to stay as focused as I would like to be. I'm afraid after it happens, it's far too easy for me to want to roll over and conk out.

Nothing will push me over the edge like my partner telling me he's about to cum, so that usually meant that my ex and i would cum together.

The only trouble is, i sometimes suffer from the same problem a lot of the boys say they have . . . sometimes after i've cum once, i just can't focus as well on giving him pleasure and after orgasm, my vagina seems to tighten up so if he's brought me off using his fingers or tongue, i really don't feel like being penetrated.

We found it worked best if he'd get me really close with fingers or tongue or both, then penetrate me and we'd usually cum together, because he couldn't usually last very long. That was probably my fault though because i just loved to watch and feel him cum inside me so rather than encouraging him to slow down and control himself, i just used to egg him on!

It did kind of make for rather short love making sessions though!

i think it's interesting reading the men's posts and comparing them to the womens. it relates to the "do men talk post". by what men tell me i'm lucky to be average. i claim total adequacy and i usually cum first at least the first couple of rounds