Making love I regard as serious, whereas fucking I regard as more fun. That's the way I see it anyway.

its all of the above: fucking, making love, having sex. Me and fiance are usually very passionate and gental, but for the arousal factor we do call it fucking as i do recall saying most of the time "FUCK ME FUCK ME FUCK ME HARD" not "make love to me harder" i like being thrown down he calls it making love though. its all the same to me.

I have to say that whether one "makes love" or "fucks" is a matter of subjective rather than objective thinking. I've only had meaningful sex with two women, and one of them I am madly in love with even though she is married and lives 2000 miles away. I thought, during the three days I was with my married lover, that I was making love with her even when we were doing it in a hurry....the first time, that is.

OK...first time during the evening is likely fucking. We haven't seen one another and I want him *bad*

If it happens again (or multiple times) it's making love. :p

...Of course, I *always* love him so why does the definition matter?

After thinking about this long and hard, I really don't care...I have an orgasm I am happy.. -:)

Was it Woody Allen

Sex without love is an empty experience, but while you're waiting for love, it's a very interesting way to pass the time.

There's a time and place for both in every ones lives.
Sometimes you want to be treated like a lady and seduced, having sweet nothings whispered in your ears as you "make love".

Other times... you feel so horny you just want to be "fucked" senseless and you don't give a stuff about how romatic it is!!

I know which one I prefer though!!

For me if it's Making Love it's all about feeling the moment and being emotionally involved with the person you are with.

If it's Fucking, it's just sex. No emotional involvement. No attachment.