How did he get your ID card in that previous college of yours? did he steal it or did he jsut pick it up ?

I mean, I can imagine myself coming across a girl's email address, I haven't seen in 4 years and email her if I had any interest in her.

But then here in Europe, stalking is not such a big issue...and I have never heard of a case here...so I might not have the right experience with the topic.

I was just surprised about all the paranoia...but once again, I have only seen it on tv...

C-R-E-E-P-Y!

Be careful


rabbit

SO????

Well, South was looking for an update, so...

I wrote J back with a quick note saying that although it was nice hearing from him, I didn't really feel that I had the time or the interest in future long distance correspondance with him. I tried to be as polite as possible and I hope that did the trick. So far, haven't heard back.

And yes, I will be careful. Thanks again for the concern...I didn't mean to scare some of you!

If you felt like you were being stalked four years ago, then you probably were. I know people can change alot in that amount of time, but what makes people "stalkers" is a psychological element that they don't just grow out of. I have to err on the side of cautiousness and advise you you should be careful of this guy. And I would be very conscerned as to how he was able to find you. Some tips...save all of his emails and letters, keep a log of any phone calls and the subject of each, tell your friends and family about the guy so that they know not to give him your address, ect., and be firm with the guy. Let him know in no uncertain tems that his creeping you out and that you have no feelings for him. Tell him that you want to know how he found you and that you want no further contact. If he doesn't take the hint...call the police.

So sayeth a jaded ex-cop...

DUDE! Read the writing on the wall: This guy is a fucking stalker. Stay the hell away from him - and start packing some mace while you're at it.

BCG,
Watch over you shoulder! This guy has never told you HIS INTENTIONS. He's been the one asking the questions. 4 years and he's never said? come on! damn sure ain't a man if he can't come out and tell you what's on his mind. It's Probably too evil to talk about. Sounds like Fatal Attraction to me.

You must realize what lengths he went to to obtain your recent e=mail address and other info.Defenatly sounds creepy to me.Be careful.