I think you have done your best Lil and you got the shitty end of the stick by having to tell her. She just can't impede the other people in the group, if she fails then that is on her head, but she cannot expect other who are working hard to take the fall with her.

Now some questions of mine, these two abbreviations were used in this thread and I don't know what they stand for

1.she is SOL after not showing up for class at all.(SOL?)
2, IMHO ?

Hate not knowing what things mean

SOL = Shit Out of Luck

IMHO = In My Honest Opinion

;)

FYI...

Some people use Humble instead of Honest.

I've always used IMHO as in my humble opinion

Well damn I was hoping it stood for - I Must Have Orgies! oh well

Well not sure if she wiill keep it up but she definitely seems to be on the ball now. She came over for dinner and we sketched out and divided the tasks for our next 2 projects. I think maybe by at least discussing it all with her she realizes that I am not a good person to let down. It would be so much easier, if I didn't care so much.