I am so happy for you! Sometimes the hardest thing in life is learning that we need to look out for #1.

yep, She now has night terrors and panic attacks. To those of you who are staying in your relationships because of the kids...... I beg you NOT to! I learned the hard way what damage can be done to a child as young as 2 years old. You don't think they can't remember? OH YES THEY DO!
I could have used the law on my side Vulkan but, it's hard to convince them when members of his family ARE the law. :rolleyes:

Yeah and when you do try to look out for#1 you're called a selfish bitch. :rolleyes:

44 :D

7/14/04....... I gave him a Birthday present he will never forget. :devil: :D

Any advice?
 

Hey CGT-

I am just starting out on the divorce path. Any advice for a guy who didn't do anything wrong? All replys are welcome.

J

Find someone who can live with your hours being a firefighter or find a different profession.

Congratulations on getting the big D finalized. Just remember "That which does not kill us only makes us stronger".

That's just it. It damn near did 2 years ago. I hate to say it but it doesn't make me stronger. It only just makes me very tired and bitter now seeing what he put me through. I'm getting too old to put up with immaturity and I won't hesitate now to stop it. Like I said before life's too short. Either get on or get the hell out of the way. ;)

(((((cgt)))))

I'm sorry I missed your big day. But here is lots of hugs for you! :hug: :hug: :hug:

Take care of yourself and your baby. Life is hard alot of the times but it makes us better people for it if we can make it past the bitter part. :wine:

What a coincidence.:D

14 July~ Bastille Day
The day the French stormed the kings prison and set the people free. :)

I tell you what..... I definitely feel like I've been set free. Even tho I have stumbled and fallen down since then. :p :rolleyes: But I'm back up and runnin. :)

I'm gettin there babybunny. I may be takin baby steps but I'm GONNA get there. :)

Send some of that attitude my way, CGT. :) Mine was very peaceful...we agreed on most things...until $$$ came into it. Instead of signing the decree and getting things over with, he has decided to fight, just to, as my *seven*-year old told my *sister,* for Christ's sake, "get revenge on Mommy." He's jeopardizing the purchase of a new house, and he's not paying a dime in the meantime.

Good thing I have a good attorney/boss/friend. Did I mention I pointed Child Support Recovery in his direction? :banner: