Worried I came on too strongly up there.

Glad to see agreement.

nope. for whatever it's worth, i agree too OF.

Your opinion is always worth a lot, wyndhy.

Actually weird thing happened. now we are planning a romantic evening this saturday lol. now she says she wants to be with me. she still wants to screw another guy to see how it is.

This is why I don't even bother looking for a relationship, d-r-a-m-a.

maddy,

My idea of a relationship is whatever you and your relatee decide. If it doesn't suit you, you brush the old relationship off and wait for a new one.

People who chase relationships, and are willing to accept a relationship based on inequality, ultimately are responsible for their own dissatisfaction.

It is often better to have no relationship rather than a poor or unhappy one. Such things are corrosive to the heart and spirit.

We are selective in cars, food and music. We should be so much more selective in beginning a relationship.

((maddy))
they aren't all drama. there is always a trade off, but a good, heathy, trusting and loving relationship is worth any amount of work. it's just the destructive ones we all should avoid.

^^^ What she said too.

:) eh... i've been spouting at the mouth all day today. I've lost patience with human kind today. thanks for the encouragement though, there just might be hope for me...

Although, I expect him to magically appear out of thin air some day too :)

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Originally Posted by maddy This is why I don't even bother looking for a relationship, d-r-a-m-a.

Trust, love and work are a relationship. Drama is not.

i beg to differ, pf. every relationship has some amount of drama. even friendships.

If drama is defined as other than game-playing, please............. :confused:

it's game-playing yes, but it's also *anything* that has a huge emotional effect. like a fight blown out of proportion...or not blown out of proportion. like strife and tragedy. or passion and experiencing life changing/challenging things together. hell, i'd say the birth of our kids was pretty dramatic, as was the ridiculous fight we had a few weeks ago and the not so ridiculous one we had just the other day. anyhting that is charged with emotion is going to have drama but not all the time and some of the drama will be the stupid theatrical crap but most of it isn't. i'm just saying it's not the drama we avoid, it's the disrespect.

Ah, and some avoid the drama & the road not taken . . .

*shoves hands in pockets & shrugs her way outta here*

Steph,

Whose pockets, perchance?