Well, this is merely my .02 but this is my theory...
in the wild, if you look at the birds and the bees.... (heheh) the bees go to the bright red flowers more often for pollenation (sp?) Red is a recessive gene I believe and that makes it very rare therefore it is an oddity to see it. the brightness of the colour is very eye catching so you see it better terefore men "pollinate" red heads with fervor?

oh and I've only been with one redheaded man and well at the time I didnt like to get on top but I had to because he had NO CLUE how to use his dick.... but he was well-endowed......

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Kyttn

Funny, but I can't remember ever having had a male lover with red hair...

Disturbingly,

WW

Bama~ I think we should set out to test your hypothesis ......... I volunteer to be a test subject! LMAO

My father is full Norweigan but my mother was many things including (but not limited to) irish,german,english,indian,and swedish. So even though her hair was pure black and she had bright green eyes, I got the genes with the red hair, but my Dad was a toe head so wherever the sun touches my hair it turns white blonde, it makes for some interesting colors. I also got his darling blue eyes. Maybe because I've fought to hide them for so long, I'm not a fan of tons of freckles, too many people made fun of them for so long, I just prefer to wear sunblock so my complexion stays farely even. But it only takes one full hour in the sun, through a window even and all the freckles come out again!

You know the whole temper thing just isn't true. I'm vendictive, I have a temper, but when I'm angry the last thing I do is throw a tantrum or even raise my voice, it scares my husband and annoys my best friend, she's a screamer, and now my husband is afraid if we have a little girl, she's gonna be a redhead with HIS temper!

I have been with a red headed man, he was very self assured (probably from the attention of his hair) and oh so cute...but not anything different in bed.

I think if you believe your beautifull because of your red hair and not that it's a curse then maybe you get the self assured trait. Hell I don't know. I've seen all sorts of beautifull men and women with all sorts of hair colors and skin colors for that matter. But I do know that if asked my best feature, I allways answer my hair. And if I go bald...well then it will be my mind!

Allthough I do think maybe red heads are all crazy...I know I am.:D

Bama, maybe you've got something there. Right now I'm going after a red head and I never really noticed her for several years till recently when I happened to notice she has red hair.

Kissy, your situation sounds really interesting with the blonding red hair. Your dead on with the temper thing being untrue too!

Lilith hehehe perhaps... a good time could be had by all ;)

Although I'm not a natural red head (I'm actually a blonde) you couldnt tell it from my skin tone, I'm very pale and my nether region hair has red tones so I can pull off the red hair as well as several shades of blonde which drived my stylist completely nuts, she hates it that I can pullit off heheh...

And as for the temper, I'm a bit violent but I feel that it's teenangst and I'll grow outta it, never hit a person but dented lockers in high school, punched through walls, and messed up knuckles on brick walls..... after my mother hit me one day though I just lost it, blanked out saw red and didnt realize what was going on until I had almost put my fist to her jaw... managed to bring my hand down and to the side enough to just graze her shoulder.... no more problems like that tho afterwards
mom also hasnt hit me since.

you're mad, I'm mad, we're all mad here ~ the Cheshire Cat Alice in Wonderland
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Kyttn

Would just like to say that i am having THE BEST TIME being red headed!!! I am blond naturally, but i just had a feeling that red was MY colour, the colour that i should have been instead of blond, because i have pale skin, a dusting of freckles across my nose, and bright baby blues! I also have a little temper too ;)

My first boyfriend was redheaded, he was sooooo cute, but we broke up after he moved to a different school, now that we're all grown up i see him now and again, and he is still cute.

So to sum up both questions, I think that redheaded men are sexy, and BEING redheaded, makes ME feel sexier!!!

If any of the ladies need a true redhead male test subject, I'll be here, trying to contain my temper ;)

Well, naturally I have white blonde hair and super white skin--in fact, I've been asked if I was albino. I get hit on a lot, but never as much as when I dyed my hair red for a year. Everyone thought it was natural, and asked why I had bleached my hair for so long. The men loved it!!! However, my love nowadays really loves blondes and gets very cranky if I even mention going red again--so I think maybe it all is personal preference--I like men with black hair. So you'll probably find equal amount of people who like each color.
~Mtavistar

I am also in the "Redhead" lover club...Nothing better than going down for some Strawberry Short Cake *wink* :)

Well..to wade in as my first post in this Forum, what better than my fave topic...Redheads!!! I had an ex who is a redhead..who gave me a Red Headed daughter ( god's revenge on me for lusting after them I guess) I have been with 2 Redheads in my life..both very self assured and once in bed...completely hot and spicy. The Ultimate Redhead?? that is a question for the guys to answer...Ann Margaret or Nicole Kidman I think...but I love them all