My s/o knows that I come here...he's even surfed the site occasionally but he has his own internet things that he does. That's where it stands. I don't give him details because he doesn't ask...and if he did...wellllll depends on what and/or who he was asking about lol ;)

When I started coming here a few months ago, I was in a relationship with a guy who would have made fun of me and probably told half the people I work with about it in a completely distorted way if I'd mentioned it to him. It made me realize there was something missing because then I met my current boyfriend.

I had even posted a question in advice about the first guy before I met the second asking what you're willing to sacrifice for a relationship and the thing that started that thread was one night I went near his ass with my hand and he said, "I'm not a fag!" <sigh>

Tyler, my new guy, knows I have some good friendships here and we've made casual plans to spend some time Monday taking photos together for the first time. Also, he's unbelievably excited about the electric toothbrush secondary role I discovered here!! :) :) :)

So, pixies has really made me see the world differently. I'm in a conservative town and wouldn't dare tell anyone here but I've mentioned it to some friends from other places who aren't conservative.

PHEW! I think I've covered everything and I think this is my longest post ever!

My wife knows that I come here and the friendships;but knows nothing of the nudity!(Especially;the women)She is extremely
jealous;and wouldn't understand.She is open to me about anything but considers anything;that we do;between us as very
private.Its hard to understand;but I have been married to her for
37yrs;so I understand!As Sugarsprinkles said;most of the things
weren't discussed with OTHER people.I don't understand some of her views myself!She has never minded me masturbating;but doesn't want me thinking of anyone else!She says that when she masturbates;that she doesn't think of anything.I say impossible!!
If that's what she wants me to think;who cares? Irish

My wife does know that I come here and I have shared some threads with her, but it is not here thing to serf the net. About the only thing she does is send and receive e-mail.