LMAO!
in that case, i refuse to answer on the grounds that i would give bigbad either an ego or a complex :p

just try it, kaelynn. if it doesn't work, switch it up ;)

Wyndhy, thank you so much for all your help and the website... I have browsed it many times now, lol.

Just to clarify, I think I know why it is a turn on for guys and I get that they like to have women take over sometimes, and hell I like to take over, I just have only done it like five times in all my sexual experiences and I need practice and I want to become very good at it, so that the guy doesn't always have to do all the work. I have never had any complaints, I just know I am not as good as I could be. This guy rocks my world, and I want to rock his just as hard... ;) I am sure all you girls understand where I am coming from.

yw, hun!
don't feel like you have to be the best.....your attitude will shine through no matter what. if you're having fun and willing to communicate (<~~~totally key!) than it's alllllllllll good ;)

(((hugs))))

Cowgirl might be my fave position but sometimes I still feel awkward on top until I get a rhythm going. Sometimes I can't get into it and I suggest we change positions.

But when it works, it really, really works! :jump:

If I read your profile right, you're young and, I'm assuming, early in your sexual exploration. Well, younger and earlier than me, how about that :) After following Pixies for a while I've reckoned back to when I was your age. My sexual experiences were clumsy. Having the Internet is soooo cool. Keep learning.

You have a great attitude, a student of sex. Your attitude will show up when you're making love, believe me. If you're involved he'll get it.

You could approach the lesson two two ways. the first might be totalkabout it, the analytical approach. This sometimes has worked well for me. Other times she just says, stop talkind, lets get on with it. show me! After a while you'll figure out what feels good to you and him. Then all you do is go into action.

The other way would be to just scoot around during making love. Sinc eyou already have read this thread and understand what this position is like for guys you can do things to compliment this.

You could take on the role of temptress and seductor. Meet him in bed, nakkid of course, as he approaches, roll onto your tummy, slide your knees up, tummy down and spread your legs. A little hip sway would be the fineal tempt. Then, peak around, drop your chin, give a smile and lick your lips.

When we're played with doggie position it isn't one that I find femaile submissive. She may be below but she can be as active as she wants. I've had her reach back, hold my hips to let me know that I'm supposed to stay still. She'll take over and grind into me. Her hands are like the rudder on a ship, she is my Captain on the voyage to Orgasm Island.

You can reach between your legs to touch him and pull him into you. As often as not, she reaches up and masturbates [is that what it would be called if I'm already inside ??? ] . It is sooo sexy to feel her touching herself and me at the same time. She has taught me how she likes to be touched too.

IN doggie position we've been known to walk the bed around the room. This is the most physical that we can be together. That's why I think it is such a wonderful position.

If you're interested in playing with anal, this is a fun place to start. Even just stroking and touching your butt is nice.

Have fun learning!