I was young really really young and it wasn't by my choice.

I'm 19 and actually still a virgin. It's kind of become a burden at this point in my life, I don't want to lose it to just anybody but I'm tired of waiting around for the right guy.

Sometimes you have to go through a few wrong guys to find the right guy. ;)

Perhaps, instead of looking for Mr Perfect...

how about mr Not bad..

At this point I'd even settle for "Mr. Right Now"...I haven't had a serious relationship since high school, it was way too serious for way too long, I'm enjoying the single life at the moment, it's hard not to while in college. I'm just looking for a decent relationship, I'm not necessarily waiting for love, just someone that I want to share my first time with.

Manda2119 I can't believe the guys are not knocking your door down waiting to get to you...but just wanted you to know..if is ok to be a virgin and wait, hon :-)

20, my room at college. Two years later I married her.

a few months after i started dating my (current) bf....in his room, on his bed...it was very sweet 2 1/2 yrs later i'm still with him! :)

At my then g/f's parents house on the living room floor while her parents were at church.

It was my 20th birthday and my g/f at the time(she was 16 or 17...I'm thinking 17) thought it would be interesting to see if my penis fit into her.....so we tried.....it wasn't that great but I lost my virginity so I was happy......then about 12 hours later at night we did it again and it was 10X's better.......and then it got better every single time.....we dated for two years(we waited around 6 months) and I miss her alot....but were still friends now....best birthday present I ever got and most likely will ever get.

I know exactly how you feel,

I'm tired of waiting around for the right girl

I've pretty much given up

I lost my viginity by having sex - is there another way to lose it that I'm not aware of?

I lost it to a girl, same age (16) in her bedroom while her parents were out. She planned the whole thing - cheeky girl!!

Mercury_Maniac i'm in the same boat as you 19 and not even a chance to get down and dirty with someone but i guess thats life....

I'm 19 and male virgin. I don't feel any pressure to lose it. I'll keep holding it till I find a woman who I know will be there in my future.

You know I was just looking at the question and thought the same as you. I had posted before, but I lost mine by a penis entering my vagina. (wasn't a good eperience either) :(