I will usually cum two or three times during foreplay. Then when we do intercourse I like to wait for him to cum which will trigger mine. Its best for me when we can cum together.

I'd have to say she really enjoys the oral so much that, she's usually the first to cum.

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Always my pleasure to pleasure her first and ensure she has her orgasm first - that way both of us can relax for the next one.

When I am with someone I get her to cum first and then I get her off as may times as I can before I do. I guess you can say I am a giver when it somes to that. I love to completely wear her out, and have her in a state of pure bliss.

She will always be the First to Cumm .......... After several times (orgasmic bliss) then it's my turn.

Well bumped.

I cum first....or sometimes we do it together....

I always come first. My guy is absolutely the expert at holding back until I've come. Sometims he'll be fucking me, and I'll be really enjoying it-like I'll be laying on my back, I pull my legs way up toward my chest with my hands, and I'll start to moan because it feels so good-that'll kind of set him off, especially if he's been holding back for a while-all of a sudden he'll pull out of me, and I'll say,"no, baby, not yet" and he'll say "no, just letting some out" and he'll kind of go uhh and this large amount of semen pours from his dick-it doesn't shoot, like it does when he has a complete come, and he doesn't scream either like he always does if he's losing it-then he recovers a few seconds and stuffs it back in me and he can last for much longer after that. Later on, if I'm still not worn out from coming, he may still pull out and let a little more out and keep on going, but it's all about whether I'm satisfied first. I'm glad I've got somebody that cares that much about me. I see girls that have husbands/boyfriends that kill themselves making them happy, and they couldn't give a shit. Those women deserve to have some guy that jumps on and squirts, and then rolls over and goes to sleep. Then they might appreciate the ones they've got a little more.

I make sure to please my woman firet before letting go.

Am I the only woman out there who sometimes wishes I got to cum last?

An orgasm really really takes it out of me, and just sometimes, I'd like for him to cum, then keep pleasuring me with fingers/tongue/cock (he doesn't go limp for quite some time afterwards) so that I could have the last orgasm of the night.....just so I can be selfish and stop when I'm satisfied, and not have to fight all those natural instincts to collapse on the bed exhausted and go to sleep.

Men often seem to pride themselves on holding back until a woman has cum, but surely a truly gallant act would be to carry on after he was satisfied......am I the only woman who feels that way?

I like that too Lou. Happens here.

We usually have what I call vessel sex. He cums, he's done. End of story.

No wonder I now have more toys than will fit in my toy box.

She cums first most all the time. We both like it that way because once I've done most of the "work" I collapse and am useless to her for several minutes. By then, she's "lost it" never to be found again during that session. I don't want to say she's a lazy lover but then again, she's not the most active either. So it works for us