Opportunity Arises
 

Need some advice...


If an opportunity presents itself, would it be better to be the seducer or the seducee? Which do you find more attractive??

Is the seducer the one who needs to bear the weight of the guilt...if there is any?

In the throws of passion I don't think it matters who initiated things. Truthfully I think it's sexy as hell when a woman makes the moves although I've only ever experienced it once. As for guilt, You can seduce your wonderfully enticing ass off and if there's no interest (must be comatose) it won't work. 50% guilt max.

You cannot seduce anyone who is not open to being seduced, even if it is just in the way back corners of the mind...so who is really the seducer?...hmmmm

My brain just exploded from reading Skip before the coffee kicked in.

I relish both roles. Sometimes I like coming home from work and being seduced by a romantic man, other times I like to hold the power. But come on, who doesn't love a massage? :)

Geez Steph...coffee always comes before Skip...you should know better by now.

i would rather be the seducee......i would feel like i was making her do something she didnt want to do.

Oh I should have clarified this as a situation with someone new maybe. we all have the possibility of role and role reversal in outr usuall relationships but when it's the very beginnings of some thing new. Do you want to be seduced, tempted or do you wanna lead?

In that case, I love to be seduced. I am very often the agressor and sometimes its nice to be wanted like that.

I like to be seduced. It's nice to get that feeling of desirability.

Didnt I just say that???....geez

Well you 2 know neither of you stand a chance;) and together you'd be in a serious mess:D

Diddo!

I have no problem with being the Seducer. I was just curious if some men find that sort of sexual aggressiveness off-putting.

Some may, but I doubt you find too many here.

Being the shy and quiet guy that I am, I would NEED to be seduced. I'll flirt and talk without a problem, but until I'm comfortable with you, would need prodding along.

nudge^^^nudge;);)

How do you really know who is seducing whom if both are willing :devil: :sex:

It's all in the eyes...

I just love a seductive woman with smoldering eyes only for me.Bring it on,but I'm afraid I won't be much of a challenge.

I'm afraid I have to be seduced that first time. Don't get me wrong, I flirt like anything...but I can't make myself cross that line without overt permission from the other person involved. After that, sure, I can be aggressive. But that first time, I have to be on the receiving end.

Which is a bit of a shame....I'd love to have been the seducer at least once. And I'm suddenly aware that I may have missed lots of opportunities because of my little quirk ;).

GingerV I have a similar quirk. Not exactly the same but similar. I love those long stolen glances or when you get caught looking and your eyes lock, where you can feel the heat just course through you immediately. I have gotten to be very forward over the past year:D

For me it really depends alot upon my mood, I like to switch things up sometimes, lol really it depends on the person and everything

lol no hints here at how to get into my pants people ^_- lmao

You have eyes? :D :hot: :D

do tell, Lilly

forward.. Were u leading or following after these eye locks? or was there not much more? or.. are they still happening?

Just wondering.

Kendall

Following or leading, after awhile I forget. Nothing has happened... I'm holding back.

I love being seduced by a woman who knows what she wants. I enjoy seducing as well but sometimes in a risky situation I would fear the ramifications of rejection.


rabbit

OHHHHHHH yeahhhhhh I'm definitely a seducer......;) :slurp:

I will be waiting to be seduced!!! :heart: :slurp:

Love Ya :heart:

agreed Aqua....hasn't happened often enough to me...