If the man is not in the mood..
 

As a male, what if i am not in the mood?? We are not stallions, what happens then??

I get my stallions made into geldings!!!!!!!!

OMG...forgive me, but I am such a smartass at times and I just can't control myself even though your asking a serious question!!!!!!!!
I deserve any and all bashing I may get....... :trout:

But what if "he is not there" ... could happen as it happens to u.

ROFL BIBI


If you're not in the mood once in a while, that's normal. If it does affect your state of mind, etc. you should visit a doctor.

huh???????

It's called football.

It's been known to happen. Usually the result of a particularly stressfull week or exhaustion. Nothing with any kind of pattern though. If it's happening more often than you feel comfortable with, or you can't pin down any possible reasons behind it...look into it.

If you're not in the mood, you're not in the mood. Can't be helped. If it's often the case that the spirit is willing but the body isn't cooperating, well then you might want to talk to the doc.

If my guy's not interested and I'm absolutely desperate, sometimes he'll be a doll and help me get off (which, incidently, sometimes changes his mood...he does love listening to me). Other times, he just reminds me where we keep the vibrators. ;)

But you shouldn't feel bad about it, not even Pixies are ready and willing 24/7.

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sounds pretty simple...you don't have sex

Funny!

If you are not in the mood let her try to get you in the mood with a BJ while watching football. :)

A man who's not in the mood? Isn't that the ultimate oxymoron??!

Ok ok. So, if I'm in the mood and he's not, I either wait or I take care of it myself, no big deal. But he can watch if he wants to... :boobs:

Happens all the time in our house. I just try to tease him all day (glimpses of something sexy, a tantalizing kiss, maybe a little butt squeeze or some slow dancing) and hope for the best. SOmetimes it actually works ;) ~~ other times I end up taking care of it myself after he goes to bed. Either way, it's all good. It just sucks that I happen to be the one with the HUGE libido in our house. LMAO, but you all knew that, right? :D

Got to luv remotes. All you need is a beer iv at the same time. bliss!

Can I watch, flutelady?

Yes you may... anything else you'd like to watch?

Dude I'm not alwas in the mood and I'm 19! Theres nothign to worry about unless you can't ever get in the mood with some enticeing on your partners part, then you might want to look into seeing a doctor about depression, I think you talked about maybe being depressed in another thread. If you are depressed don't do what I did, last year I became completely noctournal and didn't talk to anyone, not even close friends parents or my girlfrind about it, I ended up not registering for class and having to take the semester off. It'll fuck up your life for a good long time, talk to a friend or somethign if thats the cause.

somtimes i wish i wasn't in the mood, probably get more done. lol otherwise there's always tommorrow.

Can you play football at the same time? :D

LOL, It does here too as SHE happens to be the one with the HUGE libido in our house and me not in the mood.

Tad, 18 is really young to be in such a state, but I know it can happen. No, I will not do that. At least, we've got pixies friends to talk to, haven't we :hug:

Now that may get me in the mood :)