~Lingam Massage~
 

I am curious, are there any men out there that prefer the skilled hands of a gentle patient lover to masssage your cock to a new level over that of a traditional blow job?

I've read that the point of lingam massage isn't to induce orgasm, although that is a often a pleasant and welcome side effect but rather to create a space for the receiver to relax, and receive expanded pleasure from his Lingam. His partner (the giver) experiences the joy of facilitating and witnessing the man surrendering to his softer, gentler side.

The goal is to massage the Lingam, also including testicles, perineum and Sacred Spot (the equivalent to the female G-spot), and allow the man to surrender to a form of pleasure he may not be used to. From this perspective both receiver and giver relax into the massage.

Men need to learn to RELAX and RECEIVE. Traditional sexual conditioning has the man in a doing and goal oriented mode. The Lingam Massage allows the man to experience his softer, more receptive side and experience pleasure from a non-traditional perspective.

I had a friend in China explain to me how he prefers a handjob and it sounded most erotic.

Have any of you tried these techniques or enjoyed the pleasures derived from them?

Any helpful hints or suggestions to those wishing to embark on giving their lover such an experience?

I think I'd have to try both before I could really make a fair judgment call...

...and then try them each again, and again...

i can't say that i've ever taken a hand job to the exalted levels of a lingam massage (meaning the spiritual stuff) but i have used some of the manual techniques and i must say i prefer to give a hand job over a blow job. mostly because i can watch his face (and more) but there's also so much more to feel and explore, definitely have more control, too.

either way, though - hand or mouth - he sings. *groan* hehehe

How I do love a handjob!

A "good handjob" is when it's what I'm in the mood for. Sometimes it's slow and steady, with continuous and gentle stroking from the very base of my cock up to the tip and right back down. When I'm close to cumming, don't speed up or grip tighter, just keep the exact same pace. It really is ecstatic.

Other times, I need you to grab ahold of it and pump it like you're churning butter! :D

To answer your question...dunno. But I sure do love thinking about handjobs. lmfao

There are some people who cannot give head to save their lives.

There are others who lack the tactile sensitivity to make the lingham sing.

Folks need to play to their strengths.

I would just like to say...either way I love giving both!

That sounds amazing, but I wouldn't mind her putting her finger in my ass, that'd be even better :)

I don't see why the massage couldn't include that sacred spot as well.

I have given my Sweetie a Lingam massage a couple of times now and he just adores it! I put candles throughout the room, soft jazz in the background, warm almond oil and lots of towels on the bed. He relaxes while I go to work. It is an incredible bonding experience and lots of fun. :)

He is very good at giving a Yoni massage to me. ;)

I have never experience this type of pleasure, but the more I read and hear about it, It is something that I think I would find very enjoyable.

Are you offering? Just kidding.

http://www.thesexacademy.com/mainpage.htm

Learn - How to - Erotic massage - male.

Lucky the man who receives this - that's for sure.

Is it warm in here? :hot:

Yum. I could certainly go for a massage about now.

/me gives Lilith a Yanni massage...pan flute and all!

I have no particular preference - at my age any attention is appreciated!

It's sounds like a great way to spend a day...... receiving and giving!

Yes, and it's an absolutely transcendent experience, both the receiving and the giving. I highly recommend it, but not as a "technique" in a relationship that lacks feeling ... for us Westerners I think it probably is best when backed up by real emotions.

JW

So don't bother trying it out on a one night stand, eh? :)

Wouldn't be a problem ... if he is me and you don't want to do anything else, that is. :smurf:

JW

Works for me!