Biggest turn off ?
 

What is the one thing guaranteed to turn you off?

For me, it's feet. If he touches my feet, or I accidently touch his, that's it, get off me.

I detest feet, that's why I like shoes so much x

turn me off from a person entirely? or just from gettin' it on right at that moment?

Person entirely ~ Sneaky behavior

From gettin it on ~ I don't know if there's anything outside of getting ill that would kill the mood once we're in the middle of it, but if we have cold feet and hands, that really puts a damper on.

Oh I hate feet too.... *shudders*
Having cold hands or feet - if carefully placed - can encite some... harmless torture? Like tickling, but you don't have to be tickly to react to a cold hand on your back.


Slobbery kissing on my mouth or neck. Especially my neck. Hate it. Not something I have to worry about with my OH though!

erm, well mine might not be v popular, lol - but it's anything anal for me. i hate the thought of it, and don't like the idea of fingers or anything else coming near that part of me during sex. makes me shudder in a bad way, lol.

luckily my OH feels the same too, otherwise there'd be no getting jiggy at all...absolutey no problem with anyone else talking about it, doing it or telling me about it - i've even watched the odd movie with it in and not been bothered- but it's just not for me...lol

ok, am i odd or what?

Not odd at all CG. It's just not within some people's comfort range. Mrs. WI is not a big fan of anal play. She'll enjoy some external stimulation if she's in the right mood, but there's nothing going in.

my turn-offs are personality things, rudeness, and people who act superior due to feelings of inferiority

The biggest turnoffs for me are personality based and pretty much the same as what Lil posted. As far as what will just kill the mood with me....... biting. I don't mind playful nibbling and if it accidentally is a little too hard that's nothing to worry about. Had one g/f who actually drew blood while performing oral on me and OMFG, I thought I was going to die. She also got way too agressive when in the nipple area. I honestly thought I was going to lose body parts to that woman. So rough stuff biting is out for me.

:bite:

Bad Body Odor...LOL. :eew:

Well, would you at least let up when I start to cry and not wait until I'm bleeding and need stitches? Please......... :wish:

Unresponsiveness/total slack submission (just getting naked isn't enough for my cock), frigidity, bad body odor (although in the heat of things I probably gloss over this, as she probably does for me)...pulling away, getting the back or no-cuddle after sex (unless it's a slam-bam thing with no intimacy asked for)...shit like that...

Me, too.

:eew:

Slobbery kissing. bad breath.

Generally turn me if - sloppiness, lying, poor manners

phew - thought it was just me, lol.

I can go along with that.

I also love seeing a bit of enthusiasm for whatever we're doing ... and if that's missing, I get turned off fairly quickly.

Socks! I love feet and wouldn't like socks blocking them. If we're gonna be naked I want him to be totally naked along with me! Truthfully...I wouldn't be with anyone if I didn't like their feet. I have been known to ask for a toe show on first dates. I don't have a fetish as far as licking and sucking, but I do appreciate a well groomed foot. Tells me a lot about a person, actually.

Also...I'll explore all nooks and crevices and if there are "dingleberries" I'm outta there!

Yep...that's right...I said it! Now, you do know what "dingleberries" are, right? If not, I ain't explaining. I'll let the comedians of Pixie's have a field day with that one!

*curtsies and backs outta the thread*

The bigest turn off is her getting turned off.. that just kills it.

I couldn't agree more. Poor personal hygene does it too.

If I'm eating at the Y her farting

Happened to me once, thought it was hillarious!

As much as I don't really like feet, I hate socks more. Wearing socks in bed is awful, and I don't know how anyone can do it!

Personality things... When people get really cocky and they seriously think that they are going to "rock your world" and be the best fuck you've ever had, by far. That kind of attitude, regardless of how much I've been having fun up until that point, makes me want to respond with "I've had more fun alone with my hairbrush" or something as similarly ego-crushing.

:roflmao:


Lixy said "dingleberries"!!!!! :roflmao:

/me snorts unappealingly

~I know.........teeheehee!!! ;)

DM

My feet get cold without sox! Its cold somtimes!

You just need to wrap up in the duvet properly.. If you tuck it under you at the botom first then tuck under the sides, then snuggle down into it.... I've become pretty adept at it...

Or you could just get yourself a warm pixie lady to snuggle up with! :p :hot:

I am not sure I can get turned off :loveshowe

However, someone said "if she isn't into it". I suppose that would go for me as well.

Do we have a "turn on" thread?

Honey Bunny and especially Leigh have been driving me crazy today. :sad:

That would be ideal :horny:

Boy isn't THAT the truth!!

I second that motion. ALL in favor?

Aye

Rudeness, inconsideration, liars & infidelity!!!

I'm going to get blasted for this... but.... I hate morning sex. When I wake up I don't want to taste/smell icky breath, crusty drool marks on the face, etc.... now head down to the shower with me and I'm up for morning sex there, but right when I wake up - no way. Every body needs to brush their teeth and clean any crust off their face, then we can get down to business.

The latest shaving thread got me thinking - I also can't stand the sex game where someone is mommy or daddy. I can't think about having sex with my dad and I'm leaving if you start saying things like Daddy's gonna do this or that to you - just writing this post is making me angry and upsetting. WON'T go there, EVER!

The biggest turn off is someone who is not with you in the "here and now". What I mean by that is talking incessantly about the most inane and random crap. I was with someone once who would not quit yacking. I know there has to be some form of communication in the bed room but do you have to talk from start to finish about the tea in China.

My biggest turn off is whn my man is fucking me doggy and he slaps my a$$ it makes me feel cheap