Sexual Knowledge
 

I'm back with another question. I really think about this stuff too much, huh? My lady says I overanalyze everything! She loves me, though, in spite of my flaws! I think it's just my technical background and my hyperactive curiosity. ;)

What do you wish you knew sooner about sex?
What has taken you a long time to learn/realize?

1------- that it improves with age!
2------- that it doesn't prove a guy's love for u
3------- that it can be used as a "weapon"
4------- that when shared with someone u love---there is an extra buzz!



1---how to "let go"
2---how to feel "safe" and to be me--ie no hidding!
3---how to trust
4---how to learn by past experiances and not to beat myself up too bad if I make the same mistake repeatidly!

I agree with celticangle...but I was going to say that women can enjoy it to just as much if not more than men.
Also that we can make the first move insted of the guys.

And to live the rule:" Be a lady on his arm and a whore behind the door!"

I wish I'd learned sooner that a lot of men actually LIKE eating pussy.

I wish I'd learned sooner that my own sexual openness is not always a cure for other people's sexual hang-ups.

It has taken me A LONG time to learn and one could argue that I'm still learning (thank-you Pixies for helping!) that I am 'attractive' even if I don't fit into the the media stereotype of 'beautiful'.