Romantic / Sexual attentions
 

What little romantic or sexual attentions please your lover most .... when did you do it last for them? And/or ... what attentions please you most and when did you receive that last?

I wash his back...in the shower, he loves it.


He used to make me coffee or get it ready every morning, special because he does not drink it. I bought a new coffee maker and he stopped :( To hell with technology.

LOL @ Lil .... that just brought to mind one of the special things my step-father (father of my heart) always did for my mom (he died about 9 months ago .... otherwise he'd still be doing it I think) ... They lived in VERY cold climate ... he would always go out and start her car a half hour before she had to leave, scrape off the frost and such ... but mainly it was because he never wanted her to have to get into a cold car. He did so many wonderful things like that ... it's no wonder we all feel about him the way we do in my family. (thanks for bringing up really great memories!!!)

Oh yea ... and personally, I've taken to roaming my place with almost nothing on ... just because my guy loves to hear about it when he calls! :)

I know a man who does this too and I find him irresistible...

Well what I like to do to my SO other that she does with me, is we have a little notebook (about pocket size) on the desk in the bedroom and just about every morning who ever is the first to wake up and leave for the day will write the other a note. It doesn't sound like much, but to me it always has meant a lot, and I know when I write her little notes it just makes her day that much happier.

we write notes in soap on the mirror in the bathroom...


my kids have joined in on this one

I got rid of our alarm clock, I have never needed one I am always up before 6 anyway...and right before I leave for work, I sit on the edge of the bed and give her small kisses to wake her.

I've been known to make breakfasts. Coffee, milk, juice, toast or bagel, scrambled eggs, hash browns, bacon, sometimes omelettes....

Course, nobody to cook for :P

As vague as this is...something unexpected that comes from the heart. This goes both ways...for example, I e-mailed a lover a funny pic, and some words of encouragment, saying how for a while the days sort of blended in for me, and that with her in my life, I would now look forward to each new day, as she would add something new to my life, no matter how insignifficant she thought it may be...

This was after a bad day at work for her, she called me later that day and said that she printed out the e-mail after reading it like ten times, and kept it in her pocket the whole day. It just seemed like something natural to do, but to her it was the world. I was just happy to do something to make her feel better.

A blowjob always perks him up!

But seriously folks . . . I love when he cooks me breakfast, we love when the other buys treats at the store . . . one of us will make popcorn for the movie . . .

He will run me a bath and make it extra bubbly with my favourite bath oil. I love that! And he does it a lot.......it's so special. He will also get in the bath with me and sit at the plug end. :)

As for special things I do for him......I can't think of anything!!!! I will sometimes make pancakes at the weekend for us, and he knows I'll give him a massage whenever he wants/needs one but basically I don't do enough things to show him how I feel......

*note to self: must try harder*

She loves me...............what more could I ask for ? :)

My spouse loves anytime I give her an unexpected hand or foot massage. I love it when she flirts with me via e-mail during my busy day.