Threesome Fear
 

I was wondering if anyone here has a problem with threesomes. I mean it is fine that others have them but I mean do you feel like i guess afraid or worried about having one. Maybe even jealous of your other half being with someone else? Has anyone here felt worried about having their other partner being with someone else but then after having it they were fine with it? I am kinda into the threesome with another girl but I feel like a hypocrite for not wanting the same girl to enjoy a threesome with a guy. I would not even push for a threesome but if she springs one on me as a surprise would i be a hypocrite for not wanting her to have one with another guy?

There is no tit-for-tat in sex. She may only be comfortable with another woman as well. People are all different. What's important is that they are honest about what they do and do not want. Lying about it or going along just because someone else wants it is a sure problem.

:cool: Listen to the lady ^^^ closely.

I am. she is right. Very right. Is it wrong to only be in threesomes only with another woman? I mean if she sets it up and surprises me would it be terrible for me to say no?

If you don't want to then make sure she knows that.

This must be a very new relationship, as only a couple of months back you were posting about finding hard to meet women.

Can your relationship really stand this? If it's a relationship that you really care about, it may not be strong enough to cope with the emotional pressure of a threesome.

As for whether it's right to want 'only threesomes with another woman', as Lilith says there is no right and wrong in sex. It either appeals to you or it doesn't and there's not a lot you can do about it.

Of course the problem you may face is that your woman decides she'd like a threesome with another man one day and feels that if you're not willing, she may be able to find another guy with tastes more compatible with her own who'd be willing to give it a try. Unforunately, nothing can insure against that situation, whatever the circumstances. It's one of the many risks you take in any relationship.

Oh and if you suspect that she's angling for a threesome with another man, and thinks she'll get her way by agreeing to try with a woman first, then obviously, steer well clear.

I told her how I feel. I told her I don't want any and I only want her. she is happy about it.

Never been in a threesome, only have fantasized about them...... frequently. Not sure if I could go through with one or not. In all honesty I very rarely fantasize about being with two women. It's usually a very specific one involving another man and woman.

The fantasy vs. reality thing is where I don't know if I'd be able to cross the line. I really would like to think I could do it, and doubt I'd have a problem with it being another guy but it would be the "afterwards" that I wouldn't have a clue about until it actually got there.

Just make sure you have open communication about it all. Something like this should never be done without putting the proper thought into it. At least that's the way I see it. Too many feelings could end up hurt and relationships destroyed if it wasn't truly what all involved wanted.

Questions.

Is this a ploy to keep the chick you were having angst over around?

What is the magic of the number 3?

Could it be as acceptable with two, five or fifteen? Boys or girls?

C'mon!


Everyone knows that Three Is a Magic Number! :D

Sheesh, what I get for being deep and thoughtful.

I'm taking my wind-up dinosaur and eleventy-seven pictures of naked sheep stolen from under WI's bed and going to hide.

OMG!!! You never told me you have a wind-up dinosaur! You sexy bitch, you! :D

I have a wind up lil happy peter, does that count?




OMG, I was suppose to take a pic of that and post it for someone, can't remember who tho.




Btw...................... :jacques:

Bonjour.

:D