User's Guide
 

Have you ever thought about creating a sexual user's guide/owner's manual for your body? Would you give it to your lover to resource?

You know, something very different... Try drawing a sexual map of your body in a journal. Then in great detail describe your body sexually as though you were creating an user's guide/owner's manual for someone else to read.

Here's an example I started:
Take notice of how soft my hair is. Be sure to wash, condition and brush it often to keep it touchable and smelling nice. Gentle tugging and pulling during sessions of passion and play are encouraged. Don't be afraid to tug too hard or remind me how good it feels wrapped around you fingers while you guide my head to explore your "map."

This neck of mine is most sensitive to kisses, nibbles, whispers and caresses.
Don't be alarmed if I emit soft moans when one of the above actions is taken.
Remember to hold it on occasion during kissing and lovemaking,
it makes me feel closer to you in an unexplainable way.
Bottom line, it excites me!

These intense green eyes desire to be gazed into. Desire being kissed. Desire feeling the smoothness of your cock's head brushing over them. These eyes want to watch in a mirror as you make love to me. These eyes of mine wish to gaze into your eyes in the moment you determine you will come deep inside my body... or on my body... within my cherry red lips.

I think you get the idea....I think it would be an amazing gift to give your lover. Would you like to receive such a "book" ... What say you?

I would not write one as for me the experimentation is the best part, wondering if he'll find out. I would love to be given one. But even more I would love to get one he wrote about me.

Wonderful creative twist Lilith! Love it.

I react differently with different people.

What's the point of giving someone another's roadmap if you want them to find their (and your) new path.

Perhaps it's pointless.





Then again, maybe some need pointers.

hmmm you wouldn't really expect a guy to read the instructions would you?

Thus the suggestion to draw a sexual map of your body...



Good point... this is pointless for me, he wouldn't read it anyways... I'm doomed to years of yearning. ~sigh~

You just need to tattoo on your body "here".

You think he'd read that?

I think the exploration is the fun part - plus what I like changes from time to time. I'd have problems with guide versioning. ;)

I don;t even want his guide - I like the process of discovery too much. However, pointers along the way are encouraged. :D

The GOD of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob already wrote a user guide to sensuality. :sex: The Tantric sex books are good too. Remember KamaSutra. The Joy of Sex is excellent. The Sensual Woman by "J" and The Sensual Man by "M," are more good sources for me. :xmas: Now if I were to compile all of my favorite parts from each of these, I could have an operators manual for me. Useable by you to know how to play/work me and my moving parts. :cabbagep: :faint:

Some guys might find their way if they were convinced that beer was available if the proper area was licked properly; otherwise, no man is gonna stop & ask for directions ;)

I beg to differ! You say "no man", but I betcha that one man on this planet would STOP and ask, "What would you like me to do now baby?"


Sorry to be argumentative scotz...but your statement was too stereotypical/all encompassing! Might have been meant to make a funny but it's not funny to me.

Men SHOULD ask direction...same partner day in and out or different partner every time!

Oh...wait! NOT JUST MEN! WOMEN TOO!

There'd be a whole lot more ahhhhhhhhhhhh's from both camps if communication wasn't quelled!

SAY IT LOUD AND SAY IT PROUD! Tell me what feels good!



















Can you tell I am very vocal...not just here in type...but throughout my daily life? Doubts? Ask Mr. Lixy!

This may help, Lil. :)

I have a Binford Tool polo shirt that reads real men don't need instructions on the sleeve