Any Advice on Swallowing?
 

My husband and I have been married for fourteen and half years; dated for four years before we married. I've always given him blowjobs and I love it. But he wants me to swallow, always have. And it's not that I don't want to do it, but it seems a little gross to me. I need some advice on how to get past the "gross" part. I mean, I can't even watch it on our porns. I start gagging when the girls start licking and swallowing. It's only been here recently, and I talking like the past few weeks, that I've gotten to where I will taste it after he has come. (e.g. He cums on my breasts and I taste some of it.) It doesn't taste bad, it actually has a good taste to it. Use too, I would lay there really still until he gave me something to wipe it off with because I didn't want to touch it. So what can I do to get to where I can swallow. Not only do I want to please him, but I WANT to do this for myself to. I WANT TO SWALLOW!!!

Is it a texture thing? It was for me. I read somewhere to suck on a strong cough drop before. Not for the taste but because it desensitizes thigs a bit. It worked for me.

Thanks Lilith, I'll try that. And yes, it is mostly a texture thing.

xoxoxo,

Moonshine

eeek... hell, don't do it if it is so bad, why would you?

Seriously, i would hate for any of my ladies to have done it if it made them feel so bad.

Its all a matter of taste. Some women enjoy the taste and texture of cum, where as others don't. If you "Want" to swallow, Id say just grit your teeth and let him cum in your mouth and get it over with. It will only takes a few times before you get "used" to the idea, and the feeling of it. after that who knows you might go on to enjoy it. The basic principle of the thing is mind over matter really. Once you get past the initial "thoughts" of it, I don't think you'll have that big of problem with it. But as Lil said.. Suck on a halls, or maybe include some types of food in your oral sex. Whipped cream, honey, chocolate syrup are some examples. It's just the thought of it that turns most women off. After they have done it once or twice, you either like it or don't, which makes your mind up either way.

a couple squirts cepocol spray maybe?

if you gag just watching someone do it, then i'd say it's more of a mental thing than a texture thing. so instead of cepocol, perhaps red wine is in order. two bottles between you might help. :D

Thanks for the advice. My husband, as well as I, agree with the "Mind Over Matter" theory. It's only been until recently that I've allowed him to do me anally. And again, it was a WANT TO!!! thing. It got to the point that I felt desperate for him to do it and I finally just put it out of my mind and let him. I've had the feeling that it would be this way with him cumming in my mouth because YES I REALLY DO WANT TO!!! I'll also have to keep the chocolate syrup handy to "give it a sweet" taste. :bjhappy: :bj:

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Taste...
 

How do you know God is a man?






Because if he was a female cum would taste like chocolate! :D


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For years I never swallowed.... just couldn't bring myself to do it. But he wanted it, so one time I just did. Haven't stopped since. Prefer swallowing now.... no clean up. lol. And you actually taste and feel it less if you swallow it quickly rather then spit it out.

Good luck. :)

Swallows are better with every new spurt :bj: into my mouth. :cboy:

Thanks Teddy Bear, I'll keep that in mind. I've often wondered if "just getting it over & done with" wouldn't help. I know that sounds awful, and like I don't want to, but I really do.

I really appreciate all the advice everyone has given me so far. There are several of them that I plan to try. Thanks again everyone.

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I'm not a fan of playing with it, slurping it and licking it up. I don't care for the taste, and each man tastes different, so that can make a difference, too. I always swallow, because it's easier to do so. When he comes, the head of his cock is at the back of my throat anyway, so it's a short trip. I just swallow as it comes out. And I think it's only fair. If he's willing to go down on me, where the juice is flowing and there's really no option to avoid it, how can I get squeamish about his juice? Maybe thinking of it that way will help you get around the mental block.

Really quick thought...

Cum tastes different if you let air get to it. If you keep your mouth over the head of his cock when he cums you can barely feel/taste it. If you lick it after he spewed on his or your parts it's properties change. The longer it's "aired", the more "different" it will taste.

I happen to like the taste and texture of cum. Reminds me of thin pudding at times.

Oh...Hey...try eating slightly warm/water thinned, vanilla pudding before he shoots his load. YUM! Not that cum tastes like vanilla but the color and texture might be the same.

Practice makes perfect!

My wife refuses to swallow. Just refuses. No amount of persuasion on my part, or suggestion, matters.

ah well, I made my bed...