None for me thanks.
 

Have you ever gone through a period of sex avoidance?

What are some of the reasons you have turned down or even avoided sex?

Twisted my knee last night. Originally, the mammal I'm married to and I were planing to have sex. No way.

Some days I just don't feel sexy, and nothing he can so or do fixes that

Gone thru many periods of sex avoidance.

Sadly, none of them were my idea...

I'll have to amend the above statement. About this time 5 yrs ago, I did initiate a period of abstinance, due to an illness & some real pain in the balls...even then it was tough to resist the sirens' call... :hair:

I had a really stressful job that took the wind out of my sails, so to speak. I wasn't in the mood for anything. There's still some times when I'm not exactly enthusiastic about being intimate but that's more situational.

On the rare occasions I have declined sex it has been because of depression and or stress.

Or doctors orders of course.

I can only say .... "You know my story Lil!" :)

a few times i was pissed off and broke the rules about never taking a disagreement toward the bedroom. a couple times i was sick with flu. once i had kidney stones. once i was all self righteous and filled with bullshit indignation. other than that, i'm male and there really is no reason, only lame excuses and selfish shit. i've really grown up much more and matured quite a bit since. :cboy:

The surgeries I've had definitely put the brakes on while I was still healing and sometimes colds have had a similar effect for short periods of time.

I'm in one now...for physical and emotional reasons. Not sure when I'll be coming out. :p

ah...NO, just realize that there are droughts so when it rains got to take advantage of it

Once, twice
 

I went through a period of abstaining from any sexual contact after breaking off an abusive D/s relationship a few years ago. I was naive, and did not know how to see through her quiet words of "comfort". I have also gone through one or two (thankfully) brief episodes since for other reasons such as illness. Moving here was a bit rough...

I do not prefer it, (abstaining) and avoid it.

I give myself control and the right to fuck whom I please when I please.



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WW

I've gone through 'sex avoidance' as you put it Lil. Basically, sex has avoided me for years! lol!

:P

Sickness, stress, health reasons and other stuff.

I've been sick with this stupid head cold so I'm not in the mood.