You are already married! lol.

Besides amigo I am male and only enjoy the ladies. I DO wish you lots of luck though on having a great sex life with your wife. Tons of ways to variate your sex life even if she isn't comfy with masterbating for you. Main thing is to find ways to enjoy each other with each passing day and to not get to content with what you have. Life is cruel sometimes and we never know how much time we will have with them. So the key is to enjoy every moment you have with her and treat it as if it were your last.

Good luck.

/bow

Zeph