I think you've got to find you're own personal strengths and play on them.

There are people out there who are very pretty to look at, but not much in the brain department, and in that case just standing there looking good is enough - probably best to keep thir mouths shut too!

Other people, may have one particularly good feature either physically, mentally or in terms of personality. You need to draw attention to your good points. (Like Steph says, if you are good lay and you know you can put your money where your mouth is, then subtly let your intended 'victim' know! Likewise, if your best feature is your sense of humour, use it!)

Once you feel that the person has warmed to you, then flirt subtly . . .eye contact . . . smiling . . . the odd joke etc etc.

For a woman, all you need to do to let a guy know you're interested is turn the subject to sex. Just in very general terms, nothing too specific. If they're interested too, you'll be in bed in no time!

For a guy - if a woman is talking about sex, FOR GOD"S SAKE TAKE THE HINT!!!!!!!! I'm sure men would pull much more often if they only would read the signs properly!!!

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