i once talked dirty to a guy that didn't like swearing.

i told a guy that he tasted good, he thought bodily fluids were gross (found that out years later by his wife-they were married years after he and i had sex)

and then Mayhem said something to me in response to something that i said in the heat of the moment and it was like a bucket of ice water poured on me---buzz kill! lol we laff about it now.