The only thing I can say is this....I have male friends that are like big brothers and I have never had a desire to date them. However, there are men I have dated that didn't work out for one reason or another and we remain friends.

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I like the bed I'm sleeping in, just like me it's broken in; it's not old -- just older.
Like a favorite pair of torn blue jeans, this skin I'm in it's alright with me; it's not old -- just older.....Bon Jovi