ok, Louabelle, so I realize, as a a guy, boxers are not the most sexy. But at the same time, I am a bit of an exhibitionist, so what IS sexy on a guy? I refuse to go back to the tighty-whities that my mom bought me when I was a boy...and is a bannana hammick really appealing on any guy? I try to be subjective, but ultimatly, guy's bodies are not particularly attractive, at least to me as a hetro male... so what IS sexy? Especially because I am an exhibitionist, and I love showing off to the ladies, justified or not, I want to appeal to them as well. I've read many of your responces to men, and you give good advice, so I'm interested in your opinion. So...help us guys out...you ladies have all of the sexy lingerie etc, and we have bannana hammicks, so what should we be doing?