OMGGGGGGGGG! Come on looloo! Wake up and smell the deception...will ya!

I truely don't want to be harsh hun...but from what you've told us he is a snake! He's talking to his ex's? WHY? About you and your sex life with him? WHY? With one, he is saying to you that he is trying to dupe her so he can get WHAT out of her?????

looloo...listen to me and heed my words! RUN...do not walk...RUN as fast as your feet can take you out of this "relationship"! To you it is a relationship...to him you are another who he can dangle his bone in front of and get things from!

Tell me this...does he take you on dates? Does he pay sometimes? Do you live together? If so...does he do his share of paying the bills and keeping your place homey? Does he have a job? Have you been carrying his weight till he can "get back on his feet"? Does he live at home with Mommy and/or Daddy? Has he ever had a place of his own and a job longer than a year? Is he in college? How's that going?

Whatever the case...you can see what I am asking...can't you?

Make yourself a list. On one side write down all the pros of this "relationship and on the other write down all the cons. Tally them up! What do you get?

Hunny...please spare yourself the heartache I feel this guy can cause you if you continue with ths "relationship" and fall even deeper for him (for some ungodly reason, cause you've given us no redeeming qualities thus far). He sounds like a true snake-in-the-grass...and in the future he'll just be a pain in your ass!!!!!!

P.S. looloo...Welcum to Pixies! Hope to see more from you on this matter and then everywhere around the boards!

P.P.S. I'm thinking you already knew you'd get this reaction because you just wanted to verify what you are already thinking. It's ok...we are glad to help!

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