I have to be honest...the ADD kicked in BIGTIME!

Is it possible that she doesn't respond as well to your giving her oral because she knows you'd prefer performing cunnilingus to intercourse?

Perhaps if she knows she's gonna get some cock up inside her then she'd feel less stressed about having ya lick'r!

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.