I somewhat agree with you lakritze - especially on censorship. What I am concerned about is that this particular site allows teens - ages 11 - 17 to discuss items of extreem sexual nature without guidance or moderation and does not really provide a "safe" haven for them. As adults, it is acceptable to discuss these types of things, but I don't think that teens should be allowed to do so without adult guidance as well as in an environment that will not put them at risk. There comes a time when censorship shouldn't even be considered when there are safety risks involved.

And, maybe I am a prude. I don't think it is ok for an 11 year old to talk about having a threesome or wanting to find out about having a threesome because her 15 year old boyfriend wants to have one. These children are not emotionally, mentally or physically ready for these types of things. By providing a place for discussion without guidance is totally wrong.

Cobalt and I were talking about this the other night again. I told him I was sad about these kinda things that girls are experiencing so young. One of the most precious things to me was experiencing something that I had never done with him. Had I done that when I was 11-14 what would I be doing now?

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