I felt similarly when i found out I was pregnant with my son. My husband had made it very clear in the past that he wasn't interested in having kids, and when I found out i was pregnant I was terrified to tell him. Turns out he actually responded much better than i thought he would, and actually hasn't turned into a half-bad father...for the time the army has let him be around.

If you are, then there's nothing you can do about it now, start relaxing and enjoy it. Do not stress out, that just makes it worse. Just go with the flow and enjoy all the extra attention you'll be getting.

If you aren't, then you and your boy need to have a very serious conversation about what exactly you want, and when you want it. Be totally honest, and make him to the same.

Best Wishes,
LAW