well every case is individual, myself my old ex by the name of shauna it took me quite a while to get over, although I moved onto another serious relationship after only about six months, it wasn't until about 2 years or so that I stopped thinking about her at all, till then I'd still have the occational thought when something would remind me of her

we left on pretty shaky ground but nowadays I do wish her the best of luck with her new husband occationally I still take a peek in to her webpage to see how things are going for her I like kepting track of old friends of mine

ya can't really rush things though, it will happen in it's own time lol which as someone' whos been there I know is a really shitty answer, but it doesn't get much better, grin and bear it I suppose , things will get better chap will just take some time

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Well I've seen love come, I've seen shot down, I've it die in vain

Maybe someday I'll see you again, and you'll look me in my eyes and call me a friend.